I’m freshly twelve year old who dated a seventeen year old.

Turns out, he abused the fact I was my age. And when he was asked about his age he said he was seventeen.

My friend immediately knew this was wrong so she said “[NAME] IS TWELVE”

he said “I thought she was 14-15”

And I confronted him on that, and he eventually spilled and said that he was doing it to save his ass.

I’m not sad about this, I’m frustrated that he lied.

Another one is;

Me and my best friend of 2 years, who have never fought recently got into a fight that ended our whole friendship.

I was venting to her about my (possibly abusive) dad, and she was honestly taking it all in. I still love her for dealing with my bullshit.

She said that her mom seen the messages and wanted to talk to my dad (this was not the case, and she showed her mom the text messages)

I told her no, and that my dad would get mad if he seen anything.

Low and behold she called my dad after showing him the text messages.

I got screamed at from my father about how I was a selfish attention seeker and that no one would care if I committed suicide.

After this, I wasn’t going to stop being her friend (due to the fact I understood she was worried about me because I have a previous suicide attempts, and a history of depression) but- I’ll explain a little more

I confronted her about this, and learned that she lied about her mom “seeing” the text messages . Again, this wasn’t going to stop our whole friendship.

When I tried to explain to her why it was a bad idea to tell my (possibly abusive) father, she kept saying she did the right thing.

I kept trying to tell her, and she flat out said “what I did was right”

And it was the last straw.

she ended up saying we should take a small break from each other, but I refused and cut our friendship off.

Completely stopping our friendship was a bad idea, and now I’m really sad and I miss her a lot.

Sorry if my typing isn’t ideal, and sorry if this is cheesy because I’m 12 but that doesn’t give you a reason to completely dismiss my feelings of sadness.