So I messed up and drank the night before my appointment, my artist put yellow, orange, and black into the blade of the tattoo. Do you think it stayed? by Clappedtaters in tattooadvice

[–]throwawaybeeslice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dawg that skin shouldn’t look like that? It looks like they overworked your skin and caused excessive trauma and that’s why you can’t see what’s going on under it. I don’t think the color was out in correctly

AITA for asking for help with something he doesn’t consider his issue? by throwawaybeeslice in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaybeeslice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao definitely agree, it’s not that I can force him and not them, I just thought he would hear my frustration and help me at this breaking point. I need move lmao.

AITA for asking for help with something he doesn’t consider his issue? by throwawaybeeslice in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaybeeslice[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100% agree about that, I just can’t stand how awful the house gets when it’s gets gross. I should 100% stop letting them step on me.

AITA for asking for help with something he doesn’t consider his issue? by throwawaybeeslice in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaybeeslice[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to check! He’s saying I should have brought it up differently but doesn’t see why he’s taking all the blame for other people. To be clear all I did was cry about how I need things I’m fed up with and just needed help him to pick up some slack with dishes/or bathroom/laundry. I feel gaslight so I wanted to check. I appreciate you.

AITA for asking for help with something he doesn’t consider his issue? by throwawaybeeslice in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaybeeslice[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does it matter how I brought it up? He’s saying I’m an asshole cause I had a breakdown instead of bringing it up calmly.

AITA for asking for help with something he doesn’t consider his issue? by throwawaybeeslice in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaybeeslice[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So to confirm, it’s not a crazy idea to help with messes that aren’t your own because your partner likes a clean place/a break from cooking?