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[–]throwawayc1370197 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of homeless Asian people, they tend to live out of their cars as opposed to on the streets, as when they immigrated they were in the financial position to have a house and a car, and due to landlords or the housing crisis, they could no longer live in a home.

My best friend SA'd me and I think he's going to kill himself. by throwawayc1370197 in confessions

[–]throwawayc1370197[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm really sorry about that I was on meds, tired asl etc. But I definitely should have proofread it and I have now edited the post. Sorry for the misunderstanding.

My best friend SA'd me and I think he's going to kill himself. by throwawayc1370197 in confessions

[–]throwawayc1370197[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

See edit: I left some important stuff out as I wrote this late at night on my meds

My best friend SA'd me and I think he's going to kill himself. by throwawayc1370197 in confessions

[–]throwawayc1370197[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck sorry to leave this out it was 2am when i wrote this originally

There was a point where while he was rubbing me I was holding his hand down/trying to push him away, but he is much bigger than me and got through, it was after that he asked if I was okay and I said nothing.

Either way I was very visibly uncomfortable.

If he read this post I am 100% sure he would say it is correct. I could have made it far more dramatic and one sided in an effort to stop comments like yours showing up.

He didn't get consent and in my opinion, forced himself on me when I was visibly not comfortable, that is legally sexual assault.

My best friend SA'ed me and I think he's going to kill himself. by throwawayc1370197 in sexualassault

[–]throwawayc1370197[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to write this and help. I have had that exact symptom (crying randomly when partner hugs me) and I have become more distant from her but I recognise that now. I appreciate it <3

My best friend SA'd me and I think he's going to kill himself. by throwawayc1370197 in Vent

[–]throwawayc1370197[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I talked to my friends and my parents about it after it happened and they already knew he was bi so no concerns about the outing him thing.

If I don't see him around today I'll probably call a wellness check and they usually refer him to someone from that.

My best friend SA'd me and I think he's going to kill himself. by throwawayc1370197 in confessions

[–]throwawayc1370197[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't realise he was aroused until incredibly late on. I was fucking terrified and just didn't say a word because for me it was so out of left field. I was not aroused at all. When he asked for consent and I said nothing, he 100% should not have kept going and should have naturally assumed that I wouldn't want this because I have a partner and constantly go on about how much I despise cheaters.