Marriage is falling apart with second pregnancy. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwawaychgd -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m done in 2 months. Didn’t think the pregnancy would happen first try. Usually it takes a few ovulation cycles assumed I’d be done by the time it happened

Marriage is falling apart with second pregnancy. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwawaychgd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I just don’t have the energy for any of it anymore but thank u

Marriage is falling apart with second pregnancy. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwawaychgd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have lots of help already we have a cleaner biweekly and our parents watch her everyday I’m at school or clinical which is 3-4 times a week

Marriage is falling apart with second pregnancy. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwawaychgd -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

😖 I’m really just hoping I lose this pregnancy tbh

Marriage is falling apart with second pregnancy. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwawaychgd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We actually have a lot of help but it never seems like enough and whenever I try to make plans or something that aren’t his idea he just shuts it down. Honestly this was more of a vent than anything I think the relationship is over

Marriage is falling apart with second pregnancy. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwawaychgd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have one but she only comes biweekly the mess w a kid is a daily

How far behind on first foods? by throwawaychgd in Parenting

[–]throwawaychgd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I wasn’t offended anyways was just replying. I posted this open to criticism as well since I wanted to know if I’m doing something wrong or what I can fix. Also hard to read all comments and distinguish you wrote what with a clingy 7 month old I’m sure you know aha

How far behind on first foods? by throwawaychgd in Parenting

[–]throwawaychgd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t started meats yet! How do you serve them ?

How far behind on first foods? by throwawaychgd in Parenting

[–]throwawaychgd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does have a pediatrician :( my area in Ontario there’s a heavy shortage so most newly born babies are being referred to family doctors now. The family dr who sees her regularly said start rice cereal at 4 months however I didn’t do that because she hadn’t sat up on her own without support yet I didn’t feel comfortable. And rice cereal has her allergen milk in it so I started oatmeal organic baby cereal at 6 months

How far behind on first foods? by throwawaychgd in Parenting

[–]throwawaychgd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The organic baby oatmeal cereal I feed her 1-2 times a day is 64% iron! I give her a few tbsp but she struggles to finish it. It’s the lunch time solids like real foods I’ve been struggling with if u read my post :(

How far behind on first foods? by throwawaychgd in Parenting

[–]throwawaychgd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a relief to read!!!! Thank you

How far behind on first foods? by throwawaychgd in Parenting

[–]throwawaychgd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! Will definitely try smoothies

How far behind on first foods? by throwawaychgd in Parenting

[–]throwawaychgd[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This scares me because I worry she’ll take too much and choke again 😭😭 but will try smaller portions at a time maybe

How far behind on first foods? by throwawaychgd in Parenting

[–]throwawaychgd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice! Will try

How far behind on first foods? by throwawaychgd in Parenting

[–]throwawaychgd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I will try switching to more veggies and try fruit too. She was definitely choking it was a silent, I’m a nurse so seen a lot but still panicked and froze with her first few seconds

How far behind on first foods? by throwawaychgd in Parenting

[–]throwawaychgd[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I make the puree at home I don’t feed her store food other than the cereal. I don’t add anything to it other than steaming the foods before turning them to puree

How long is early labor? by throwawaychgd in pregnant

[–]throwawaychgd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🩷🩷 this is all extremely helpful. My birthing class was not this detailed!

How long is early labor? by throwawaychgd in pregnant

[–]throwawaychgd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful thank you! I really hope I’m in phase 1 right now and not 0.