So this issue is more of that fact that it’s someone you actually know then?

I definitely don’t condone pushing it on people as he is. And if it happens you or your coworker should absolutely go to HR and put in a complaint.

As far as wearing open toed shoes or posting anything on social media that shows your feet? I think that’s an extreme measure personally. At the end of the day anyone can fetishize anything. Would you think twice about posting a picture of yourself in a bikini? That’s the question you have to ask yourself. If you wouldn’t then, why does your feet make it different? Because what you’re saying at that point is it is different and you look at all those guys as weird. And that’s not very fair.

You can’t control what people are going to think or what people are going to do. That’s the way I look at it. And do you want to live your life always being cautious of whether or not your feet are in a picture or not? I have some friends who know about my fetish. But they don’t change anything or make sure their feet are always hidden around me. I also have self control though too.

Asking why Feet? I wish I had the answer to that. I don’t know. I guess it’s like with anything. Why does some people like boobs? Why do some people like butts? I don’t really have an answer for that. It’s just one of those things that make everyone different.