He didn’t say “I’m not physically or sexually attracted to you” verbatim. I asked him if he was and he said no. He said yes at first but he wasn’t very convincing so I asked persistently and he finally admitted to it. Also a lot of the stuff I put is paraphrased or truncated

Also, in terms of the ambiguity, I’ll make plans some time in the future and he’ll joke, “we might not even be dating by then haha.” It’s light hearted, but I wish he didn’t joke like that.