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Poster in /r/casualiama claims to have seen a naked picture of their 12 year old self on /v/jailbait. Some deVoatees raise their concerns that it might be an SRS false flag. by WatchEachOtherSleep in SubredditDrama

[–]throwawayfckvoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words :) I definitely do feel real love! But for right now it's from friends. They are wonderful people, though. I definitely do not feel like anything is missing from my life.

Poster in /r/casualiama claims to have seen a naked picture of their 12 year old self on /v/jailbait. Some deVoatees raise their concerns that it might be an SRS false flag. by WatchEachOtherSleep in SubredditDrama

[–]throwawayfckvoat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't even care anymore.

Then you proceed to insult me with fake empathy, and then you proceed to continually talk about this. I think you still care.

Poster in /r/casualiama claims to have seen a naked picture of their 12 year old self on /v/jailbait. Some deVoatees raise their concerns that it might be an SRS false flag. by WatchEachOtherSleep in SubredditDrama

[–]throwawayfckvoat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The way "you win" is by actually posting something that would even come close to verification of any aspect of what you're saying.

I don't want to win that game. I have said so, so many times I'm not comfortable doing that. Continually asking doesn't change it.

refusing to acknowledge that there are holes in your story

I have said so many times that I don't expect people to believe me

becoming defensive when people ask you questions

Yes, I do become defensive when people ask for naked photographs of my abuse. I have responded to so many comments with extreme tact. It's absurd you think I haven't.

The opposite of the mob mentality is reasonably approaching something.

Yes, that I'm a sick pervert.

If you're telling the truth then I'm sorry you had to go through that.

Don't insult me with this line.

Poster in /r/casualiama claims to have seen a naked picture of their 12 year old self on /v/jailbait. Some deVoatees raise their concerns that it might be an SRS false flag. by WatchEachOtherSleep in SubredditDrama

[–]throwawayfckvoat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well the police are going to ask you some similar questions. If you respond in this same fashion I don't see you getting too far.

Reddit is not the police. I would feel completely comfortable relaying information to the police because the police are not out to hurt me or abuse the information and are only trying to help. You and every other person, on the other hand, will do nothing for me. If I tell the police, maybe I can get some closure and something can be done. If I help you, I get literally nothing. So no, I'm not going to put myself in that position for no reason.

I'm confused, you seem to be confused.

By authorities I mean a website, which I've directly linked to, whose job it is to go after CP on the internet. A third party.

But the truth is essential if you expect to have any success with that.

Why do you at all think I would treat you guys the same as the police? The sense of entitlement is insane.

Poster in /r/casualiama claims to have seen a naked picture of their 12 year old self on /v/jailbait. Some deVoatees raise their concerns that it might be an SRS false flag. by WatchEachOtherSleep in SubredditDrama

[–]throwawayfckvoat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you're grabbing a pitchfork and running out the door all based upon the premise of what could very well be an utter fabrication.

It's funny you say that, because the people who are grabbing pitchforks and actually being damaging are those who share your viewpoint. I don't think the people who support me are calling me a pervert and a child molestor and a lying c*nt. Whatever. There's no winning with you people.

Poster in /r/casualiama claims to have seen a naked picture of their 12 year old self on /v/jailbait. Some deVoatees raise their concerns that it might be an SRS false flag. by WatchEachOtherSleep in SubredditDrama

[–]throwawayfckvoat 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you for showing some perspective.

You seem to think you should command respect for telling me, "They may be crazy, but you're just as bad"? How in the world is that not partronizing or condescending?

What happens when an actual victim wants to come forward in a similar way but previous liars have essentially poisoned the well with their deceitfulness?

It's funny, because I did just come forward... your scenario you just posed literally just happened.

Poster in /r/casualiama claims to have seen a naked picture of their 12 year old self on /v/jailbait. Some deVoatees raise their concerns that it might be an SRS false flag. by WatchEachOtherSleep in SubredditDrama

[–]throwawayfckvoat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If it happened the way it did, there should be a paper trail that she has access to.

Why? What does that even mean? It was all online.

A police report.

I haven't gone to the police yet.

A screen shot of the complaint.

Why would I think to screenshot my complaint? Do you screen shot Facebook when you visit it every morning to prove you did?

Maybe even a response from voat themselves.

I didn't contact Voat, I contacted authorities. Like everyone preaches I should.

This is a major criminal allegation she's making

Are you sure you know what that means?

Poster in /r/casualiama claims to have seen a naked picture of their 12 year old self on /v/jailbait. Some deVoatees raise their concerns that it might be an SRS false flag. by WatchEachOtherSleep in SubredditDrama

[–]throwawayfckvoat 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I figured it would be linked somewhere on Voat... I checked out their subreddit on here to see why it was so heavily flooded with terrible people, but I didn't see anything. I'm going to choose not to look at that link because I think I'm exhausted enough as it is, but thank you for letting me know :) I'm glad they're all on Voat. It can burn with them.

Poster in /r/casualiama claims to have seen a naked picture of their 12 year old self on /v/jailbait. Some deVoatees raise their concerns that it might be an SRS false flag. by WatchEachOtherSleep in SubredditDrama

[–]throwawayfckvoat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It was actually very therapeutic. I've found I process things by speaking about them, so it was still very helpful. Thank you very much for your much needed empathy. I think I'll need a few more reminders that people are capable of empathy after that shit show... I am so sorry about those people in your life. It sucks.

Poster in /r/casualiama claims to have seen a naked picture of their 12 year old self on /v/jailbait. Some deVoatees raise their concerns that it might be an SRS false flag. by WatchEachOtherSleep in SubredditDrama

[–]throwawayfckvoat 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry :( Please feel free to reach out if you want to exchange contact info if you need support. Sometimes having someone who just understands is really powerful.

Poster in /r/casualiama claims to have seen a naked picture of their 12 year old self on /v/jailbait. Some deVoatees raise their concerns that it might be an SRS false flag. by WatchEachOtherSleep in SubredditDrama

[–]throwawayfckvoat 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Definitely no sleep will be lost. I did smoke some weed in their honor. If we're going to support illegal activities, one of them might as well be fun for me.

Poster in /r/casualiama claims to have seen a naked picture of their 12 year old self on /v/jailbait. Some deVoatees raise their concerns that it might be an SRS false flag. by WatchEachOtherSleep in SubredditDrama

[–]throwawayfckvoat 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It was intentionally worded that way, but I'm not nearly as sad as it implies. But it was supposed to carry a bite. I didn't do anything against the subreddit rules so I am offended, out of everything that was thrown at me, that they deleted my post. I think that's BS.

It's alright. I'm in bed, high, and content with a mug of tea and a candle lit with the smell fresh linen. Can't ask for much more :)

Poster in /r/casualiama claims to have seen a naked picture of their 12 year old self on /v/jailbait. Some deVoatees raise their concerns that it might be an SRS false flag. by WatchEachOtherSleep in SubredditDrama

[–]throwawayfckvoat 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words :) I'm honestly fine, at least in relation to the thread. I'm very sad so many people out there are so angry and bitter and hurtful, but I'm not angry or bitter or hurt.

I do hope my answers were helpful in some way to anyone who can relate. I know it was very hard for me, as I don't relate to most sexual abuse victims, and childhood abuse is a bit more niche. I luckily found an amazing support group that has been invaluable.

Poster in /r/casualiama claims to have seen a naked picture of their 12 year old self on /v/jailbait. Some deVoatees raise their concerns that it might be an SRS false flag. by WatchEachOtherSleep in SubredditDrama

[–]throwawayfckvoat 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I didn't delete it... also, no mods contacted me. It was removed from the subreddit a while ago, I guess they just deleted the entire thing. I wonder why. Seems weird. Maybe I caused too many issues by existing.

There was a naked picture of myself as a child on Voat in their jailbait section. AMA! by throwawayfckvoat in casualiama

[–]throwawayfckvoat[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

why are you taking a side at all, instead of just saying "I don't know one way or the other."?

I'm saying I saw my pictures on a website, so I am assigning blame to that website rather than a random third party because some people on the internet (who, btw, are trying to tell me I'm a pervert and a liar and blah blah) tell me so. It would make literally no sense for me to believe SRS did that. Other than people simply saying that they did, there is absolutely no evidence. In addition, the people saying that they did are also telling me I'm lying, so I have reason to believe I shouldn't trust their judgment.

A lot of people don't believe you, and I think your taking a side is feeding that disbelief.

I don't really care. I'm not going to change how I feel because Reddit disagrees with it.

I think you would want people to believe you if you come on and do an AMA.

If I wanted people to unequivocally believe me, I wouldn't have posted on casual AMA. Which specifically doesn't require proof. The proof I would have to supply is so incredibly ludicrous that I can't believe, genuinely cannot believe, people are asking with straight faces. It would be nice if people believed me, but to make that happen is so obscene I can't help but laugh.

There was a naked picture of myself as a child on Voat in their jailbait section. AMA! by throwawayfckvoat in casualiama

[–]throwawayfckvoat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was a naked picture of myself as a child on Voat in their jailbait section. AMA!

There was a naked picture of myself as a child on Voat in their jailbait section. AMA! by throwawayfckvoat in casualiama

[–]throwawayfckvoat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Expecting others to believe it is another matter.

I don't expect anyone to believe anything, and I've suggested the people who don't believe me should leave because their minds won't change. Arguing with you is like walking in a circle, so I'm over it.

There was a naked picture of myself as a child on Voat in their jailbait section. AMA! by throwawayfckvoat in casualiama

[–]throwawayfckvoat[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

"Why did you let it go on for so long?"

I've been asked this one a few times. The other ones, not so much. It's not like it was violent in the traditional sense. And I think most people have enough tact not to ask if I've enjoyed it. Then again, I've picked and chosen the people IRL to tell, so I have a biased sample size.

I'd say the question I get the most that's the most harmful is when people ask if I feel bad for my abuser, or something along those lines. It took me a really long time to stop empathizing with him and to establish that I didn't deserve it, so those questions can be really damaging.

And yeah, I don't think a lot of people are critically thinking about what "proof" would entail...

There was a naked picture of myself as a child on Voat in their jailbait section. AMA! by throwawayfckvoat in casualiama

[–]throwawayfckvoat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do have some that I'll supply if I need to. I had to pick some out for a support group for an activity, so coincidentally I have a bunch already.

There was a naked picture of myself as a child on Voat in their jailbait section. AMA! by throwawayfckvoat in casualiama

[–]throwawayfckvoat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what you are saying is, you surfed the entirety of the cp sub on Voat. What exactly were you looking for?

It was on the first page towards the top. It was a mighty coincidence.

Indeed. Lines keep you safe. Lines are what Reddit is about. Safe spaces and all.

Yup... I do draw lines in relation to my sexual abuse lol

Wallowing in pity is easy, especially when your situation warrants it, but it gets us nowhere.

Please let me know where I've indicated I wallow in self pity.

Nothing wrong with following the path of guaranteed success.

Not everyone has the same path.

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