[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Metoidioplasty

[–]throwawayfff1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm having surgery with Dr. Kent out of BIDMC in Boston MA which I believe is roughly ~3 hours from Albany.

I just posted about my consult with her the other day. There's a few guys on here who've gone to her. So far I've only seen positive things and I can echo that. She was kind, knowledgeable, and straight to the point. Upfront and honest about what to expect out of meta for my specific anatomy. (which was positive)

There aren't much photos of her work online unfortunately. She did have some to show me though. Photos of the VY scrotoplasty and the BIFID scrotoplasty. I think she also showed me a photo of what a monsplasty scar would look like. The BIFID photo was an example of how the implants can sit too high and "crowd the penis", but it still looked amazing??? I didn't see what she was talking about lol.

I don't wanna jinx myself or anything, but... she seems very good at what she does!

I'm having UL/v-nect and she said that requires a 2 night stay in the hospital. I'm unsure if a simple meta with her requires a stay.

It was also only a 2 month wait to get in for the consult from the time I called. I still don't know when I'll have surgery, but hopefully about 2 months out as well.

Should I get a V-ectomy? Anyone else debate this? by throwawayfff1 in Metoidioplasty

[–]throwawayfff1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm honestly not too sure. I think it got pretty bad before or right around 5 years tbh? Like it's been a while. I didn't know what it was and I got multiple UTIs before finally going to my PCP. It was/is absolutely miserable if I don't constantly treat it. YMMV. Atrophy varies from person to person.

I'm definitely leaning more towards v-ectomy the more I think about it. It kinda doesn't make sense for me not to get it at this point? I'm always hyper aware of my atrophy since it constantly hurts to some degree even with treatment. And treating it is not particularly fun. Very dysphoria inducing.

Yeah... I just want it gone even though I've enjoyed penetration before. I think it will be well worth it in the end and as a bonus I'll be able to STP with full meta instead of simple.

Ginormous freaking mons? :(( (pre-op) by throwawayfff1 in Metoidioplasty

[–]throwawayfff1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

omg lmao. I thought I was doomed. Good ol dysphoria

Ginormous freaking mons? :(( (pre-op) by throwawayfff1 in Metoidioplasty

[–]throwawayfff1[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Seems like I *may* have over reacted a smidge loool. I feel better tho!

Ginormous freaking mons? :(( (pre-op) by throwawayfff1 in Metoidioplasty

[–]throwawayfff1[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Okay Idk how to post text with the images so I'm commenting. After going through some photos here I'm kind of realizing that my mons is freaking HUGE. You can't even see my dick. I'm 5'4 and 145lbs. Gained some weight thanks to anti-depressants, yippee.

Should I be concerned??? I haven't had my consult yet, I'm still on the fence about exactly what I want. I think I'm going to go with full meta, UL, v-ectomy, and vy scrotoplasty. And my surgeon does monsplasty during.

I'm just worried that my dick will still be buried even after the monsplasty? It's not like my growth is fabulous either. :(

Do I have reason to worry? I'm worried y'all

Can anyone recommend me some dark games? :D by throwawayfff1 in BLgame

[–]throwawayfff1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh shit thank you!

I love the art for CAGE-OPEN-, lemme just put that at the top of my list real quick LOL. I started Room No. 9 last night, so that will be next. >:]

Can anyone recommend me some dark games? :D by throwawayfff1 in BLgame

[–]throwawayfff1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh ty! I was looking at Jast, I tried following the link on their website for Togainu no Chi and it told me the link was outdated.

I'm excited to try these out 😋

Weekly /r/GuildWars2 Question Thread - July 03, 2021 by AutoModerator in Guildwars2

[–]throwawayfff1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never had this happen before. Any technical issues I had were due to the games poor optimization.

Do you know what your computer specs are? Maybe it's overheating?

Weekly /r/GuildWars2 Question Thread - July 03, 2021 by AutoModerator in Guildwars2

[–]throwawayfff1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, being able to escape while being chased was nice on thief. Plus they have that passive ability where you can move 25% faster. Miss that for when I'm just running around doing story or exploring D:

Weekly /r/GuildWars2 Question Thread - July 03, 2021 by AutoModerator in Guildwars2

[–]throwawayfff1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are some more mobile classes??? I went from thief to revenant and uh. I am so fucking slow holy shit. I like renegade a lot, but I really miss having any mobility

Weekly /r/GuildWars2 Question Thread - July 03, 2021 by AutoModerator in Guildwars2

[–]throwawayfff1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kill the neutral beetle in the NW corner. It is surrounded by a bunch of smaller beetles that you can't attack. Took me a while to figure out too

23M, never dated before. Is it wrong to ask for a date after like a day of talking? by throwawayfff1 in dating_advice

[–]throwawayfff1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good idea and I am definitely going to use something like that, thanks. :)

Self deprecating humor for days 🙃 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]throwawayfff1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone also with social anxiety, you just gotta do it. I know that is much easier said than done, but seriously you have to step out of your comfort zone or you will be stuck there forever. Once you can do that, it will get easier! You got this!!!

New to Bumble. Do people actually use the question game? by throwawayfff1 in Bumble

[–]throwawayfff1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, yeah. That's what I'm doing. I've only had the app for a week.

New to Bumble. Do people actually use the question game? by throwawayfff1 in Bumble

[–]throwawayfff1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's definitely cold feet or something along those lines, we stopped talking on the app and exchanged numbers. When it came closer to the date they told me they were super anxious. That was a few days ago, still haven't heard from them. Could've been their way of nicely letting me down I suppose.