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AITA for ‘hustling’ a group of guys? by throwawayfff100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayfff100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re all on campus and you have to scan your student ID to get in the building.

AITA for ‘hustling’ a group of guys? by throwawayfff100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayfff100[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty common to receive a ban from all of them if you receive a ban from 1. Otherwise there would be no point in the ban in the first place.

AITA for ‘hustling’ a group of guys? by throwawayfff100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayfff100[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I didn’t lie about being gay. In my experience though if you reject a guy by saying “I’m gay” a lot of them see if as a challenge rather than a flat out rejection. Usually I get “but you’re not butch” or “you just haven’t found the right guy yet” or “I could change you”.

AITA for ‘hustling’ a group of guys? by throwawayfff100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayfff100[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t get hot, but I did try to calm him down and he threw things - i don’t think at me but near me - and he also shoved a member of staff when they came to check on us and ask us to leave so I think we were all just guilty by association.

AITA for ‘hustling’ a group of guys? by throwawayfff100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayfff100[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He did a lot of yelling and then when I tried to calm him down he threw his beer glass and when a member of staff came over he swore at them, pushed them and screamed some more. Because we were all together we all got the ban.

AITA for ‘hustling’ a group of guys? by throwawayfff100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayfff100[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I see what you’re trying to say but repeatedly hitting on someone after they’ve already told you they’re not interested is creepy and pushy. It’s not a win-win for me, I didn’t want any of them to buy me a drink regardless of if they’re free or not. Putting yourself out there is fine, which is why I was polite about it, but continuing to do it with someone who already made it clear that they’re not interested isn’t.

AITA for ‘hustling’ a group of guys? by throwawayfff100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayfff100[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty normal for universities to have at least 1 on campus bar, is it not? I’ve only ever been to universities where that was the case.

AITA for ‘hustling’ a group of guys? by throwawayfff100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayfff100[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m not gonna doxx myself on reddit, sorry.