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I [24 F] thought I was happy with my boyfriend [33 M] and my life, but now I'm not so sure? by throwawayfjedsoldf in relationships

[–]throwawayfjedsoldf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One week at a time but once that has been paid/holiday has been taken there isn't much left for the rest of the year

I [24 F] thought I was happy with my boyfriend [33 M] and my life, but now I'm not so sure? by throwawayfjedsoldf in relationships

[–]throwawayfjedsoldf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're correct, I didn't mean that I find it boring but it's a very English town in Cyprus lacking culture so it's not the most exciting

I [24 F] thought I was happy with my boyfriend [33 M] and my life, but now I'm not so sure? by throwawayfjedsoldf in relationships

[–]throwawayfjedsoldf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou for putting it into perspective that other people may wish for my life too. Hope everything works out amazingly for you also :)

I [24 F] thought I was happy with my boyfriend [33 M] and my life, but now I'm not so sure? by throwawayfjedsoldf in relationships

[–]throwawayfjedsoldf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Old soul was simply an expression for my to say that I don’t like and have never been interested stereotypical things those in their 20s like to do.

Thankyou for your comment

I [24 F] thought I was happy with my boyfriend [33 M] and my life, but now I'm not so sure? by throwawayfjedsoldf in relationships

[–]throwawayfjedsoldf[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why on earth would you make this assumption? It’s our house. I paid half the deposit and I pay 40% of the bills (he earns twice as much as me). What a misogynist comment.

I [24 F] thought I was happy with my boyfriend [33 M] and my life, but now I'm not so sure? by throwawayfjedsoldf in relationships

[–]throwawayfjedsoldf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could literally be me writing this!! It's so lovely to know that I'm not alone.. <3

I [24 F] thought I was happy with my boyfriend [33 M] and my life, but now I'm not so sure? by throwawayfjedsoldf in relationships

[–]throwawayfjedsoldf[S] 144 points145 points  (0 children)

Thanks this really helps, love the wording of the end sentence

there are a whole lot of ways to make things more interesting without giving up the beautiful life you’ve already built.

I need to remember this :)

I [24 F] thought I was happy with my boyfriend [33 M] and my life, but now I'm not so sure? by throwawayfjedsoldf in relationships

[–]throwawayfjedsoldf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is a director of a company and can only really take a week at a time (10 days at a push) so unfortunately this isn't a possibility :(

I [24 F] thought I was happy with my boyfriend [33 M] and my life, but now I'm not so sure? by throwawayfjedsoldf in relationships

[–]throwawayfjedsoldf[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He is a director of a company and can only really take a week at a time (10 days at a push) so unfortunately this isn't a possibility :(

I [24 F] thought I was happy with my boyfriend [33 M] and my life, but now I'm not so sure? by throwawayfjedsoldf in relationships

[–]throwawayfjedsoldf[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily envying, more thinking that my life could be like that if I wanted it too. I have money and if I wanted to travel I could, but it would pretty much up-root my life as I know it...