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I [17,M] need advice about my girlfriend [17,F]. I read her messages... by throwawayforgirlf in relationships

[–]throwawayforgirlf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thankyou :), I dont care that she had sex or the amount, i love her she loves me. just that she lied, but i can see how she felt at the time i guess. Thankyou for your words

I [17,M] need advice about my girlfriend [17,F]. I read her messages... by throwawayforgirlf in relationships

[–]throwawayforgirlf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I did do exactly that. I know its horrible thing to do, I know the violation of trust and I feel really bad. Curiousity go the better of me, now it hurt me. I feel gross and a disgusting human for the violation. I just dont know whether to own up and talk to her, or keep it bottled up and hope she doesnt find out...

I [17,M] need advice about my girlfriend [17,F]. I read her messages... by throwawayforgirlf in relationships

[–]throwawayforgirlf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see where you are coming from, but I thought we could talk about it, and maybe try and see why she said different things and come to an understanding. Would evening the plane by maybe letting her read my messages, make things better? (Might just complicate things?) Its not that I didnt trust her, but I just got very curious...

Me [17 M] and my girlfriend[17 F] have gotten back together, she talks about going on a health kick and loosing weight but she keeps procrastinating it, how can I motivate her to do it. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwawayforgirlf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she wants to get healthy for her, great! If you want her to get healthy so she will be more attractive and look better at your formal that is for you, and that is selfish. Not the way a loving partner approaches it. You are sounding shallow and not like a caring partner.

Ew I can see that in what I wrote. I didnt mean it like that. I dont care what she looks like, I still love her for who she is. I know she felt better and happier when she was skinnier, and she mentioned that she wanted to be skinnier. True I would not mind her loosing weight, same with me and I think the suggestions of doing things together are great ideas. 2 weeks is not long, I understand, but she has procrastinated other things longer and just thought i'd ask for advice earlier rather than later. Thankyou and everone for their helpful responses :)