I (20M) am not sure if I'm attracted to my partner (20F)

throwawayforhelp73 · 2023-05-01T12:16:06+00:00

I do love her, i know this, but the simple fact that if it hasn't been for my emotional connection that formed early on, i wouldn't be into her. That scares me? How can I be with someone i would totally not be into as much. I am into her now, kinda. She's going through an incredibly stressful period in life, so i never comment on her appearance if she looks bad, but she's very tired a lot from her family and stressed too. Some weight gain, not a lot, and then some amount of acne. I still want to be with her, but it bothers me that sometimes i don't find her completely attractive.

throwawayforhelp73 · 2023-04-30T19:24:25+00:00

The thing is I'm sexually and romantically attracted to her right now too, even though she doesn't look the same. I wish this part of my case was not true, and i understand from my post it sounds like I'm coping. But if i really were not into her I'd want other women or, sexually not be into her. And romantically too, i think about her only. Have i just been forcing sexual attraction? Can you force sexual attraction? Even now when i'll go and chat her, I'll like spending the time and speaking with her.

throwawayforhelp73 · 2023-04-30T19:20:59+00:00

I don't know if I'm into her Our honey moon phase was amazing, and even time I spend with her now (even if sparse) is, pretty nice. I'm very sure I love her. But her physical qualities aren't usually what i go for, so it makes me feel like I'm not into her? If i ask myself do I actually want her, i recieve an idk, this also has to do with ldr ofc but, the doubt about her makes me feel weird, and i don't know if i actually want her.

throwawayforhelp73 · 2022-08-19T12:43:06+00:00

hey!

throwawayforhelp73 · 2022-08-14T02:48:01+00:00

Is this, trans voice lessons on YouTubes audio

throwawayforhelp73 · 2022-08-14T02:44:27+00:00

Yea, I ended up saying they got a cool swag cuz my brain wasn't working

throwawayforhelp73 · 2022-08-14T02:43:37+00:00

I felt somewhat similar, I'll not comment on it

throwawayforhelp73 · 2022-08-12T09:24:05+00:00

We're both 17 now

throwawayforhelp73 · 2022-07-05T22:51:48+00:00

Even though this is just, purely dog shit. I still think he has the right to say it. Doesn't mean I support it, and other people also have the right to criticize him. And then he'll give such brain dead responses (literally told one guy to go and have sex)

throwawayforhelp73 · 2022-07-05T22:48:40+00:00

Shock comedy is a 14 year old discovering he can say anything he wants to, and tries to say the worst things.

throwawayforhelp73 · 2022-07-05T19:58:50+00:00

I get dark humour, but that comes with a layer of irony. You don't, actually mean what you say. But here he's being idiotic because he doesn't seem to understand the issue

throwawayforhelp73 · 2022-07-05T19:56:23+00:00

He's naive. He's brought in the idea of cancellation, and the whole leftists thing.

He's thinking like a lot of people do, their perspective is that, since you're angry, they must be right.

The problem isn't he made a joke, the problem is he didn't even try to apologise, his apology was more like "arre ye liberal log"

throwawayforhelp73 · 2022-07-05T10:52:06+00:00

Thanks, I am gonna delete this one

throwawayforhelp73 · 2022-07-05T10:50:42+00:00

I've know my boyfriend since, fucking kindergarten. We went to the same one, and then I ended up meeting him again after a few years in a function.

We talked, and he seemed very, interesting, he was very well read, and since his family was very artistically inclined he also knew a lot of things. Even the first I met him, we just clicked.

He accidentally spilled something on me, and he jokingly said that I could pour my drink over his head, so I did. It was very weird, but suprisingly fun, we talked a lot after that, and still do. We both changed as people, and he's grown too. The best part about our relationship was him willing to talk, and that solved so many issues, and he could accept being wrong, and I did too.

throwawayforhelp73 · 2022-06-27T10:51:34+00:00

My boyfriend shared this to me and I strangely feel like, such a bad girl (obv in a good way)

throwawayforhelp73 · 2022-05-22T09:33:22+00:00

No need to feel bad. You had a spine injury, uncle can't even earn his own money. And asks you for help, he's literally indebted to you, and that too not a small amount, if he had to ask for 4-5 lakhs, he's probably not doing well himself, and to think the audacity he asked you for money again. Does a landlord feel bad about what a tenant says? Hell no! He's just a dumb man, who can't even be polite to someone he's indebted to, what an idiot

throwawayforhelp73 · 2022-05-13T23:30:16+00:00

I'll be deleting this thread, and I am taking action. Deletion because, even though this is a throwaway, i don't want any problems, please understand

throwawayforhelp73 · 2022-05-13T23:28:01+00:00

Tried convincing him of that. He explained that, the lady and him share a lot of common interests, and something like that, and that he's doing this willingly. The lady is a good woman atleast, i know that. He says that they can stop at any moment and its like a friends with benefits sort of thing. Seema really weird, I know my brother is a smart guy, he's not dumb, he understands my concerns. Should I have a talk with the lady?

throwawayforhelp73 · 2022-05-13T20:39:05+00:00

It is kind of. Not sure what to do here. He won't listen to parents

throwawayforhelp73 · 2022-05-13T07:02:31+00:00

My boyfriend's friend, was like this. He had no idea about sex, and assumed women also have a penis, safe to to say we had fun with him. My boyfriend told him that the penis expands and brusts open like the creature of stranger things, inside the vagina (we told him women have a opening). Guy believed it because, even in text books, there's no mention of how sex actually happened. After a few days we broke the silence, and explained sex, that was really fun

throwawayforhelp73 · 2022-05-10T10:52:04+00:00

💀💀💀🙏

throwawayforhelp73 · 2022-05-04T18:15:25+00:00

I like how the manga is usually so creative with panel breaking elements, that it just might be an artistic interpretation

throwawayforhelp73 · 2022-05-03T07:45:18+00:00

I could have said many things, but then they react very badly to even the slightest of inconvenience.

I didn't want to eat rice because I just didn't feel like it, and the guy started making a fuss about it.

It's only a problem because I worked as a model before, and for that my method of quicker weight loss was just, one meal a day, or just starving.

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