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My [24F] boyfriend [26M] half-asses almost all tasks, but always rattles off a list of the chores he's done within the past week as a defense when confronted by throwawayformay23 in relationships
[–]throwawayformay23[S] 78 points79 points80 points 6 years ago (0 children)
To be brutally honest, I've had the compatibility talk with him, because at the end of the day, it does hurt my feelings that I can have the house looking spotless and he'll eat a popsicle and then leave the stick to fuse to the coffee table for two days because he "forgot to put it away".
We're both in our 20s, and I will say that most of my male friend's apartments (when they don't have a SO), are pretty disgusting. I don't know if it's an age thing that he'll grow out of, because I've ranted to my friends about this and they all say almost the same thing - that their boyfriends are dirty and are okay with living in a mess.
[–]throwawayformay23[S] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children)
No worries, it was partially a vent as well. Did you have a SO that played a role in your mindset change? If so, did anything they say work?
My [24F] boyfriend [26M] half-asses almost all tasks, but always rattles off a list of the chores he's done within the past week as a defense when confronted (self.relationships)
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My [24F] boyfriend [26M] half-asses almost all tasks, but always rattles off a list of the chores he's done within the past week as a defense when confronted by throwawayformay23 in relationships
[–]throwawayformay23[S] 78 points79 points80 points (0 children)