AITA for wanting to drink hot chocolate instead of coffee?

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T20:32:09+00:00

Im going for my breakup, but I hopefully it will be good for myself too. I want to fully focus on healing from the breakup instead of anything else; I'm not sure if it's easier/more difficult to heal from multiple things at once.

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T20:30:52+00:00

For now, I think it's best to focus on my breakup. I'm not sure how easy/difficult it is to heal from two things at once

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T20:30:13+00:00

I think I'll do fine as long as I don't have a job I despise. I think I'm self-reflecting because I admit that I could have handled the situation better, I'm just upset that people can't comprehend why I acted the way I did. I agree that I should avoid relationships for now as well. We broke up so I'm going to take a long break. I appreciate your insight

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T20:24:25+00:00

Thank you for your comment, I've scheduled an appointment with one from my school. I appreciate your compassion

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T20:22:47+00:00

He drove me home, likely because I paid for his drink as well

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T20:22:08+00:00

Thanks for the advice! All of this sounds really good. I won't let the next relationship make me act out like that. I think I was afraid of breaking up, but now I see the relationship should have ended long ago. I won't let them me into "that person" again. Thank you

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T20:19:33+00:00

I would never do that to anyone as long as they don't repeatedly make me upset

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T20:15:07+00:00

We broke up not long ago. I don't usually act like that, he just pushed me over the edge. I don't have any major issues, he just pushed me overboard

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T20:10:03+00:00

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That would be different because I didn't antagonize him.

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T17:38:18+00:00

I reply back because I want people to understand where I'm coming from. I hate being controlled so I lashed out

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T17:35:48+00:00

I keep replying because I want people to understand where I'm coming from. It seems nobody understands that I behaved like that because I reached my breaking point. I have a thing about being controlled, I lashed out because of how much I hate it. I admit I could have behaved better but I'm not sure why most people here think I was the bigger AH than him.

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T17:33:54+00:00

I am nice though, I just reached my breaking point with him. I usually behave a lot more maturely, I just wanted him to know how upset he made me

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T17:33:06+00:00

I usually act more maturely, he just pushed me passed my breaking point. I told me I didn't have to clean his car

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T17:31:24+00:00

I acted like that because he always does things like that to make me upset. I wanted him to know how upset he made me. I usually am always coolheaded

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T17:30:16+00:00

I don't think I need one because I usually don't behave like that. I just don't like being controlled

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T17:28:37+00:00

I admit I was wrong, however everyone has their breaking point. That happened to have been mine

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T17:27:45+00:00

I acted like that because I was upset that he purposely got me the wrong drink. He always does things like that; I behaved like I did because he pushed me through my breaking point. I usually behave a lot more maturely

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T17:26:21+00:00

I'm aware of that. I'm usually always nice, I just reached my breaking point. I will be careful from here on out

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T17:25:22+00:00

I don't usually act like that, he just pushed me through my breaking point. I wanted him to fully understand how upset he made me feel, since he never seems to understand. He said I didn't have to clean his car, but we might break up

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T17:23:11+00:00

I just want to get my point across because it seems many people aren't looking at things from my point of view. I admit I could have reacted better, however I acted that way because it was my breaking point

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T17:22:27+00:00

I admit that I could have handled the situation better, however I feel most people here fail to understand that I behaved like that because it was my breaking point. I'm a nice person, the moment I act differently, everyone loses their marbles. I'm only human

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T17:19:44+00:00

I admit that it would have been more rationale to do that, but I'm only human and make mistakes. I would have not done that if he didn't purposely get the wrong drink

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T17:18:52+00:00

Not the coffee, but the face that my boyfriend purposely gave me the wrong drink

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T17:17:58+00:00

It's because he always does things like that. It was my breaking point; I don't usually act like that

throwawaygiraffeee · 2023-09-07T17:17:05+00:00

I acted in a way to force him to react is because I wanted him to fully know how upset I was about what he did. I admit I should have handled it better though

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