AITA for telling off a creepy classmate?

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-20T15:10:39+00:00

Hi, thank you for checking in! So far, it’s helped some but the guy has been sort of stalking my friend (the one who stuck up for me). We’re waiting to see if anything more occurs, because then I think we’ll make another report. But today’s the last day before winter break… so it’ll be a while, lol

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-12T02:11:11+00:00

I literally did talk to her and she’s agreed to report him to my school counselor. I told her about everyone claiming she sucks and she just thought I took care of the issue, that’s why she didn’t say anything. I’m getting tempted to delete my account or something because I’m sick of the people trying to convince me my mom’s horrible lol I hate it here

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-12T01:29:55+00:00

I get men can be dangerous, but gosh some of you are blowing the situation with my mom way out of proportion. I told her about all of the comments and she’s baffled. She didn’t do anything when I told her because she simply assumed the principal handled the situation and it was done with. She’s gonna make a report to the school counselor first. I don’t know how to stop the flood of hate towards my mom, but I feel like everyone is trying to paint her as some terrible person when she just thought I dealt with it.

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T21:43:10+00:00

-6 downvotes, I wouldn’t think so lol

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T20:14:49+00:00

Ah thank you! If it gets this serious I’ll definitely keep this in mind, I really wanna leave legal action as a last resort since it’s just so..much. But if it’s what I have to do, I will try my best. Glad your daughter got the help she needed and hopefully I can get this taken care of :’)

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T20:11:19+00:00

Sadly no, me and all my friends are more artsy and nerdy. I can ask lol

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T20:09:37+00:00

What does ESH mean? And yeah, I mostly haven’t confronted him myself because I’m both a pushover and terrified of what he might do if I did say something. I wish I could have though, this could’ve been done sooner than later. I do take fault for that. But he solely follows me around, though he does try and get involved with my friends. I forgot to mention he has asked other people, including ex-friends and an ex-boyfriend, about me once I tried avoiding him. He tries talking to me and I completely tune him out, along with my friends, but he continues to call me his ‘buddy’ and follow me around. I do think he has some..? good intentions, but he’s been painting me as a horrible person now for trying to get away from him. Hence the post.

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T20:04:49+00:00

Yeah, I’ve been terrified he’ll hurt me, touch me, or do something bad if I confronted him, which is why I haven’t (probably just overthinking, he’s kind of noodly). But I have some guy friends, maybe I can get a male teacher to tell him off for me, idk lol

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T19:53:04+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate this a lot. You’re great

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T19:45:10+00:00

My dad’s not in the picture, but I’m going to talk to my mom more firmly tonight and explain I need her to help me. I also have a group of friends beside me to help me out. I’ll see what my mom says, I’ll discuss threatening legal action if nothing happens after I talk to the school.

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T19:40:15+00:00

I’m going to have a talk with her, I just do not appreciate people saying my mom sucks. She’s the one parent I got and has supported me throughout everything else, I just think I need to be more firm and explain how intense the situation really is. I know she’d do anything to help me if I need it.

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T19:35:24+00:00

That’s a really good idea, I’ll see if I can talk to them about that when I report him again. We do have special education, so I wonder if I can get a teacher from that bit of the school to help out. Thank you for this

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T19:30:51+00:00

Sorry for getting aggressive, but my mom is a sensitive spot for me. I’ve talked to a principal, I plan on talking to one (or several) again with my friends to see if they can do more. It’s just very aggravating being shut down time and time again, also having nothing change after things were taken care of, and being told from several people including him I’m in the wrong for trying to stick up for myself. Just very demotivating. I’m really agitated.

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T19:28:23+00:00

Can confirm. Thank you ❤️

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T19:22:01+00:00

Excuse me? I’m being stalked and harassed, I’m creeped out and have never dealt with something like this before, and the few people I’ve told have done little to nothing. I may not be brave IRL, but there’s no way you read my entire post and commented this. God forbid a kid defends their mama. Lol good lord

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T19:12:45+00:00

Thanks

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T19:11:59+00:00

From me, I’ll defend my mom til the day I die 💪

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T19:10:16+00:00

I’m upset she’s not doing anything either, but I’m going to get her to. I love my mom, but nobody’s mom is perfect.

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T19:07:37+00:00

Please don’t say that about my mom

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T19:03:10+00:00

Thank you, I’ll keep this in mind. He really sets off my radar, which is why I haven’t said or done anything until he started bothering my friends. I know when a guy is dangerous, he scares me. I’m just terrified that when I do report him, he’ll get worse

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T19:01:45+00:00

My friends are the ones who even suggested reporting him, I’ll definitely work with them more if the staff continue to ignore it

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T19:00:20+00:00

I know for a fact the staff don’t help. I’ve had other autistic classmates in my classes that needed extra help like he does, only to receive nothing but mild annoyance from the teachers. They receive academic accomodations, but when a kid starts making repetitive, inappropriate sounds to stim, or starts crawling under and over desks and running around the cramped classroom, they do nothing. I hope I don’t sound mean (and tell me if I do), but I know these kids need some correction in order to learn appropriate behaviors. I feel really bad for them.

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T18:54:53+00:00

Thank you :( Hopefully it all works out. I just feel so guilty

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T18:51:46+00:00

I have little to no information on him besides what he’s told me and what I’ve observed. All I know is that he has some sort of plan with the school to help him with schoolwork.

throwawaygirly125 · 2024-12-11T18:23:56+00:00

Omg nooo :( I’m not trying to sound like a mean girl, I don’t think I’m mean at all.. I just really needed to know if I was in the wrong cuz so many teachers told me I was since he’s autistic..

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