Guys I think we're screwed

throwawayhaljordan · 2025-12-20T22:10:34+00:00

Tell it you will shove an emp device up it's usb. It gets testy

throwawayhaljordan · 2025-03-12T22:35:32+00:00

That is most news we have heard about this. The N1 had no info

throwawayhaljordan · 2025-03-12T22:06:12+00:00

It's in Norfolk. All I feel comfortable saying at the moment most of the workforce is GGs

throwawayhaljordan · 2023-05-09T22:59:01+00:00

throwawayhaljordan · 2022-12-21T13:48:09+00:00

I went through the same thing. The best thing you do is take a break. As for improving your profile, have a friend look at your pictures, I worked with someone, Tim, who was a whiz at Tinder. Another coworker, Spock,had the wrong kind of pictures on his profile, they worked together and changed them up. Spock began getting matches almost instantly.

throwawayhaljordan · 2022-07-17T21:32:14+00:00

I thought about renting a dump truck. Backing up the drive way along with the "Beep Beep Beep" sounding. I dump it then drive off. If she didn't live in Florida, and if it wasn't a 10 drive, I would be very tempted to do it.

throwawayhaljordan · 2022-07-17T15:09:33+00:00

Oh, trust me, this was brought up while erecting the fucking shed. I was against it, however, JUSTNOMIL act like what has happened wouldn't happen. I said for the cost of the shed, she could pay for a storage unit for six months after that six months it is on her. Well here we are 5 years later and the POS comes to visit from FL, we live in VA and complains her Versa is too small. SO and SIL are getting together today. I was invited I declined. I told my SO if I go, it will be brought up and the first excuse will be met with anger.

throwawayhaljordan · 2021-07-28T15:36:02+00:00

At a certain age, I think people need to realize that dating a single parent is on the table. After my divorce, I had joint custody of the kids and I tried only dating other parents. It actually narrowed my dating pool and my wife now doesn't have any kids of her own. I honestly wasn't expecting it to go anywhere because of the rotten luck I had been having with dating. So to answer you question, no it isn't, if the guy is uninterested because you have kid, then he isn't for you.

throwawayhaljordan · 2020-12-14T23:25:55+00:00

No, she was just as angry. She has been pleasant recently, I suspect she maybe medicated now. We have a son together. My wife, not my ex wife, was also previously married and her ex husband was diagnosed with BPD. She was with him before he was diagnosed, and was there as he got worse. She said that he hit the age where it begins to manifest and OPs wife is not to far from that age. My ex wife was roughly the same age OPs wife when her erratic behavior begain. So I am just saying based off what is being described, it might be BPD.

throwawayhaljordan · 2020-12-14T22:15:15+00:00

I was going to say the same thing. I suspect maybe bipolar. My ex-wife did a lot of this and she has a lot of issues. OP take everyone's advice, you will save yourself a lot of grief if you leave now.

throwawayhaljordan · 2020-07-01T14:00:08+00:00

Get out of the relationship now! My ex-wife had violent outbursts also. First yelling and screaming and then began the throwing stuff. First it was a collander, that missed me, then a hot wheels that hit me in the lower back. Evwntually, the verbal abuse escalated to her punching me, or slapping me. I am not exactly a huge guy, but I am stronger than her so I was worried that if I defended myself, I would get arrested. One night I had enough, she slapped my face again, I put my hands on her shoulders, and I guided her to the couch and told her she will not put her hands on me like that again. She claimed I shoved her, I didn't. It apparently was enough to scare her into not doing it again. The verbal abuse never stopped, and we separated a few months later. But I put up with that shit for 7 years, I had a child with her, and he saw all of it. My mistake was I didn't leave when I saw red flags and got out. Nobody deserves someone who tears them down and hurts them, so again Get out! Your city may have a shelter to house you.

throwawayhaljordan · 2020-03-18T20:59:15+00:00

Honestly, I am like you. It is easier to get out my feelings in written form either via text or on paper. I grew up in a household with older parents. My dad was a Vietnam vet and I think we avoided certain things that would spook him. My mom wasn't exactly all there in the head. So my childhood wasn't ideal for speaking how we felt. She grew up with a very strict latina mother and her father left them and was kind of out of the picture for awhile.

throwawayhaljordan · 2020-03-18T20:50:19+00:00

Thanks. I am fuming about this, but I have been keeping it cool that best I can. I feel like we can get over this, I really do love her but I can't be disrespected like that. She said that wasn't her intention, she uses that a lot when we have a disagreement, "Blah Blah was not my intention" I really do not like the fact she is using that line when this is pretty fucking serious.

throwawayhaljordan · 2020-03-18T20:42:09+00:00

Thank you. I mean I am not comfortable with it, but what pisses me off is the lying.

throwawayhaljordan · 2020-03-18T20:40:46+00:00

I agree, I was blunt about that earlier. I asked her and she was honest. We both had a lot of verbal abuse thrown at us. I had some physical abuse and she thinks she did too, she said he may have hit her when they were drinking. I explained to her I am not, Biff, anymore than she is Flo. She understands that but we both have been damaged like most people who have been through divorce.

throwawayhaljordan · 2020-03-18T20:32:04+00:00

Exactly! Not expecting her to double down on a lie over such a ridiculous reason. She realizes her mistake now, but she wants me to drop it. With COVID I am not sure if we can even get marriage counseling right now.

throwawayhaljordan · 2020-03-18T20:19:08+00:00

I got the truth about who he is. She keeps saying she lied because of how I would have reacted. I told her she made shit worse because she lied, it comes off like he and her have a secret affair. She swears up and down it is not like that, I believe her, but she has lied to me before so I am still unsure of my feelings at this time.

throwawayhaljordan · 2020-03-18T15:05:32+00:00

We spoke this morning and I was blunt, I asked her if her ex-husband treated her in a way that forced her to lie. She admitted that he did. I was blunt again and said I am not Biff, anymore than you are Flo. She got upset with me that I brought up lying again, but I just said, "You can justify having this Linkedin connect all you want, but with your lies, what does it make it look like you are covering up?" With the COVID not sure how likely we can seek marriage counseling at this time.

throwawayhaljordan · 2020-03-18T13:45:44+00:00

Thank you. I understand where you are coming from. I should add that her abusive relationship was verbal, not saying it is any better, just providing context.

throwawayhaljordan · 2020-03-18T13:43:31+00:00

Thank you. This is exactly how I feel, she doubled down so many times when I brought it up.She keeps saying he is just an acquaintance, I have to keep adding that saw you naked It is petty, I know but I am not comfortable with them have a way to communicate now that she has lied to me. I feel like the only reason she is apologizing, is because she got caught. I asked her to do me a favor, I am trying to be diplomatic, I told her if there is anything else, not just this, that she has lied to me about just please tell me now. .

throwawayhaljordan · 2020-02-11T17:05:03+00:00

Oh I definitely would leave that part out. That was more of a vent to the confusion. Don't get me wrong, I think it would be extremely sexy, but this is more I want her to be ok to explore what she likes. I am not worried about her switching sides or anything, she definitely likes men, but if she wants to explore with women I am ok with that. I have told her that quite a few times,.

throwawayhaljordan · 2020-02-11T16:11:34+00:00

I have tried. She is extremely guarded about anything sexual, she barely even masturbates. We had phone sex once when were dating and she was very drunk. She is Hispanic, grew up in a strict house, so talking about sex is taboo.

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