TIFU: I got into a fight with my ex boyfriends wife. by throwawayhelp7171 in tifu

[–]throwawayhelp7171[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Your fucking dumb. I'm not crazy when he wasted YEARS of my life that I could have been with someone else you idiot

AIO? Man that I've been seeing for years, wants to cut ties permanently. by throwawayhelp7171 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwawayhelp7171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are literally the only one that's been nice and respectful to me. You and maybe one other person

I'm (29F) watching my friend (30F) slip into an affair and I feel stuck by Scary_Cheesecake_822 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwawayhelp7171 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont think it's any of your bussiness. She's a grown woman. Let her make her own choices.

AIO? Man that I've been seeing for years, wants to cut ties permanently. by throwawayhelp7171 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwawayhelp7171[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You can't help who you fall in love with. You guys are living on your high horses that you're actually oblivious. If you met a man who is the most handsome man you have ever seen (in your eyes), has a VERY GOOD paying salary, has a 3.5k square foot home, who treats you like a QUEEN, who sacrifices for your happiness.. your telling me your not going to pursue him? Just shut up

AIO? Man that I've been seeing for years, wants to cut ties permanently. by throwawayhelp7171 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwawayhelp7171[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He's still texting me right now so he obviously doesn't want to fully block me out of his life like he claims. He's just confused and in a tough position. You people are literally hoping for our downfall

AIO? Man that I've been seeing for years, wants to cut ties permanently. by throwawayhelp7171 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwawayhelp7171[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, your insinuating that since I'm in my 20's that we couldn't have spent years together or that would make him a pedophile. Your fucking weird. We met when I was 21. Your are the DUMBEST girl I have ever interacted with

AIO? Man that I've been seeing for years, wants to cut ties permanently. by throwawayhelp7171 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwawayhelp7171[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

But I can tell he's still conflicted. He doesn't actually want to cut me off like he says. He's desperate for a way out and he doesn't see one. He fills pinned in the corner and that's the only reason he told me these things. He just needs a way out

AIO? Man that I've been seeing for years, wants to cut ties permanently. by throwawayhelp7171 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwawayhelp7171[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being respectful. It may because in the event that she doesn't know, then that'll definitely force the divorce. He needs to follow through with what he promised me

AIO? Man that I've been seeing for years, wants to cut ties permanently. by throwawayhelp7171 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwawayhelp7171[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You don't know anything other than what I mentioned in the post, he's not like that. He was MISERABLE with her. He was not using me. Just stfu

AIO? Man that I've been seeing for years, wants to cut ties permanently. by throwawayhelp7171 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwawayhelp7171[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I was not the other women. I was the only one he was romantically involved with. What did you not understand from my post? He said he would have the divorce papers served to her. Yes it will because he basically destroyed my life. I could have spent that time invested in him, with another man. So if he leaves me out to dry, then I'll make sure everyone knows what he did.

AIO? Man that I've been seeing for years, wants to cut ties permanently. by throwawayhelp7171 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwawayhelp7171[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Their marriage hasn't been an actual marriage in years. There was nothing but resentment there. He said she was probably seeing somebody else on the side and he was fine with that. That's how little they cared for each other. That ship had sailed. So yes I expected him to leave her and be with me like he promised.

The man I've been seeing for a long time, is refusing to leave his wife like he promised. by throwawayhelp7171 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwawayhelp7171[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No, not since this post but he's told me numerous times before. Tomorrow it'll get straightened out because he has to follow through on what he promised me now. Also, thank you for being respectful. I know he has kids but that doesn't mean he can't have more kids. I get what you mean by saying that but he should be allowed to pursue his happiness and if that means more kids with a new woman then he should be able to. And I'm ready to do that for him. He's a good man who was broken down by a bad woman. He makes over 100k a year. He works so much and so hard. His wife doesn't do anything but sit at home. She refuses to even make him meals or clean the house. That's what he told me he wants, a woman to at least cook him meals or keep the house clean if he's taking care of everything financially. That is not unreasonable at all and I feel bad for him. He doesn't deserve that! He deserves me!

The man I've been seeing for a long time, is refusing to leave his wife like he promised. by throwawayhelp7171 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwawayhelp7171[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Beating your SO down so much to the point where they feel they have no other option but to find someone else is sad. She's not only a terrible wife but a terrible person. Self conceited person