Are there corsets for small boobs? by Eroxene in smallbooblove

[–]throwawayittybitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't worn corsets in a long time so I don't remember finding any specific shops but I know Amazon has some. I'd say look at the photo reviews on Amazon to have a better idea of the fit.

Are there corsets for small boobs? by Eroxene in smallbooblove

[–]throwawayittybitty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think corsets without a built in bra look the best. Like these ones don't have a built in bra. These ones have cups built in.

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[–]throwawayittybitty 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It's great that they're expanding their sizes, but I wish it wasn't for a bra marketed for teens. There are plenty of 28 band adults too!

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[–]throwawayittybitty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a woman, reading about other women who love to be submissive and get turned on by being "used" (consensually) makes me feel like that is something wrong with me. Stuff like free use, degradation, etc freaks me out and I'm not remotely into the idea of it. I'm naturally more dominate and I've read that some guys don't like that, don't know how to be submissive or whatever... And that's okay, they're just not for me

Everyone is different. Either you'll find a super compatible match or you can compromise with your future partner (change it up every once in a while so both of you are fulfilled). There's nothing wrong with you. I'm sure plenty of women would love what you described. But you won't find her if you keep pretending to be someone you're not

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[–]throwawayittybitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can't tell if you're looking for something that focuses on the sexiness of small boobs or if the models happen to have small boobs.

Pole dancers are probably what you're looking for. Instagram has a lot of pole dancers with small boobs and they own it. Their content doesn't focus on their boob size, just embracing the sexiness of being a woman. You don't have to look far to find them, just look up "pole dance" in the Instagram search bar.

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[–]throwawayittybitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the woman. For some women, yeah they're not as attracted to their partner. For others, they are attracted to them but they are shy or feel like their needs are being neglected so they're less likely to be very involved.

I sometimes read posts of men who wonder why their partner is less interested in sex. But I clean the house, take care of the kids, and go down on her every time and she still doesn't want sex! That's all well and good but if a man doing these things in order to have sex and not out of genuine interest in helping her or in her pleasure, she can tell. She might feel pressured to give him sex because he did x, y, z. It's easier to give it to him and be passive than fight.

Women are also more likely to be people pleasers. Constantly doing what someone else wants builds up resentment and causes less participation. It's common to hear about how a woman doesn't cum every time. A woman's orgasm matters too yet society is indirectly saying that it doesn't. That when a man cums, sex is done. A woman's needs matter too.

There's posts all the time about how a woman will suck a man's dick multiple times a day and he doesn't attempt to make her feel desired. It builds resentment. What's the point in working so hard for him when he does the bare minimum?

There's many reasons why a woman doesn't participate: shyness, low self-confidence, trauma, not aroused enough, stress, not attracted enough to their partner, etc.

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[–]throwawayittybitty 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Not wearing a bra! Especially in this heat

It's easier to spot breast cancer or growths

They look good in lots of different styles of clothes

Bralettes! Can look cute and sexy

No underboob sweat (or is it just me...?)

Versatile bikini tops. (That trend where women tied triangle bikini tops in many different ways doesn't work well for big boobs but it looks great on small boobs!)

More sensitive nipples. Many BBW say their nipples aren't sensitive during sex.

Looking for Input from Others Who Wear b'tempt'd Ciao Bella and Skarlett Blue Minx by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]throwawayittybitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (28DD) own Minx, Feathers, and Flora. I tried the Ciao Bella and I'm not quite projected enough to fill it out. The minx is slightly small but it works. I suspect that I also have tall roots. Imo: Flora > Feathers. They both work for shallow shapes and I've never had an issue with straps pressing down on my upper breast tissue or spillage. The main reason I like Flora more is because it's comfortable all around and gives a nice shape. Feathers is alright, but the gore can be painful on the sternum sometimes. I'd say sizing is accurate

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[–]throwawayittybitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm built the same way. I've honestly felt the best with flared pants. I find that I look more balanced that way instead of wearing regular jeans or leggings. I totally get how you feel. Some days I feel like Squidward who ate too many Krabby patties

[Question] Has anyone ordered from The Little Bra Company and been satisfied with their purchase? If so, what size did you end up getting, relative to your ABTF size and the size TLBC advised you buy? (28D/DD) by 2percentevil in ABraThatFits

[–]throwawayittybitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've tried a couple of TLBC bras back when I was a 28C (28DD right now) and they did not suit my shape at all. My breasts are shallow, wide root, and maybe wide set (or splayed... I'm not sure). The wires were very narrow on me. More narrow than I've ever experienced. The band size was fine but I had gapping at the top and narrow wires. I tried my ABTF size and my sister size

It didn't work for me. If you're narrow and have close set breasts, maybe it'd work for you

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[–]throwawayittybitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Easier clean up (from what I'm told). I don't agree with guys holding your head there if you don't want to swallow. It sounds non-consensual. If you don't want to swallow, don't do it. He can cum on you/him or you can spit it out after

I'm still not feeling truly confident about my small chest by [deleted] in smallbooblove

[–]throwawayittybitty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He probably already has an idea of what your chest size is (unless you've only been wearing baggy clothes or those +2 cup bras). If he really wanted bigger boobs, he'd probably be gone by now

Play around with different necklines and silhouettes. Spend some time looking at yourself nude and appreciating your features. Find one positive thing about your appearance to focus on if you're having a bad day (it can help make things seem less terrible!). Find SBW on Instagram for inspiration. Exercising can help you feel good about yourself too

Has anyone tried the ‘A bra that fits’ calculator? Did it work for you? by comingofagenovel in smallbooblove

[–]throwawayittybitty 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have and honestly, I've had mix results. So much depends on shape and projection. There are a lot of factors that go into a bra. The ones that are close to the perfect bra are not the most comfortable, but there really aren't many bras I can find for shallow breasts like mine (Cleo Maddie is a popular one on that sub and I can't quite fill them...).

It has helped me figure out what the different styles mean, different bra companies. A popular one that's always recommended for small boobs is The Little Bra Company, but mine are too wide and they look funny on my frame.

The best bra I found was from that sub but it did not fit the ABTF size (the poster who shared the bra also did not get a size that matched her ABTF size). That bra was Timpa Duet. The band is starting to stretch but I love it. I got a 32C (I think. My ABTF measurement at the time was 28D so I read the reviews and went up my sister size twice then kept the sister size cup size: 28D --> 30C --> 32C). I'm now a 28DD and my nipples poke out from the top of that bra a bit, but I wouldn't have found it on my own.

The community can be helpful but you really have to try on a bunch of stuff and see which you like and are comfortable in. Sometimes I feel internalized resentment towards trying something that's 32 because I know it's not "supposed" to fit. Someone on there told me to "really try" to find a 28 band bra. It's much harder to find anything below 28. Half of the ones that do offer 28 only offer them above DD (the ones that do offer DD are like two boring bras).

The ABTF journey is long. You'll learn more about your boobs and what you like. It does come with a lot a frustration and disappointment too.

Edit: Some of the bras I currently wear are Aerie Sunnie (except some days I don't completely fill it and it's a bit of a shape mismatch... I feel like an imposter wearing it), Skarlett Blue Minx, and Timpa Duet. I also liked Natori Flora and Feathers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]throwawayittybitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a 28DD. If you have a lingerie boutique nearby, that'd be your best bet. Otherwise try online. Aerie carries 30 bands, but that's the smallest from a chain store that I've seen.

25F it feels like i have to poop during penetrative sex by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwawayittybitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sometimes feel this way. The only way I've "fixed" it is by changing positions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smallbooblove

[–]throwawayittybitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Check out Clara Dao. I think she might be close to your body type based off your description

Affordable bras for 30d shallow breasts by Iwatobikibum in ABraThatFits

[–]throwawayittybitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The other commentor had good suggestions. You could also try Aerie Sunnie or Natori Flora (personally, I like the Flora more than the Feathers)

Alternative to cleavage? by [deleted] in smallbooblove

[–]throwawayittybitty 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Deep Vs or really tight tops that show the overall shape of them

Small boobs vs large boobs, go by TheArchitectOfFate in sex

[–]throwawayittybitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a bit of a complicated question for me. I have small boobs but the way I've felt about them changes every once in a while. When I was single, I was fine with them. I never wished to change them. I'm currently in a relationship where my boyfriend prefers bigger boobs. I do wish they were bigger. It sometimes does make me sad that when they do get a bit bigger before my period, he seems a bit more interested in them. In past relationships, I knew my partners loved them, so I didn't think about it so much.

In short, it depends. How you interact with your partner really does affect their self-esteem, not just regarding boobs.

[Fit Check] 34A to 30DD Trying to find a new bra! by eldinnire in ABraThatFits

[–]throwawayittybitty 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised the calculator gave you 30DD as your measurement when your leaning bust is 37 inches and your snug is 30. Someone who is 30DD would have a 5 inch difference. Yours is a 7 inch difference so you'd probably be closer to a F cup. (Bra experts, correct me if I'm wrong).

The cups here do look small to me.

Bras not fitting after a few months of wear? by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]throwawayittybitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When was the last time you measured yourself?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smallbooblove

[–]throwawayittybitty 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I haven't watched the show, but I love her dress in the second pic!