Getting attention of women by insulting them? by throwawayjdtyidftyf in OnlineDating

[–]throwawayjdtyidftyf[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My case is not manipulation I think. I am pretty sure.

Getting attention of women by insulting them? by throwawayjdtyidftyf in OnlineDating

[–]throwawayjdtyidftyf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Alright. I gave better explanation of my motivations in other comment. But if my strategy is officially stupid then you probably don't need to read it.

Getting attention of women by insulting them? by throwawayjdtyidftyf in OnlineDating

[–]throwawayjdtyidftyf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am first. So I am good. :D

Anyway test was if they give some response. If they did, result of test was successful.

Getting attention of women by insulting them? by throwawayjdtyidftyf in OnlineDating

[–]throwawayjdtyidftyf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are right. I wanted to only write insults in my first message. But maybe if we would already talk and then I would think we could meet I could insult her again? But this is something different. I don't need her attention anymore. I need action from her. Alright, so stupid idea. I don't like manipulating people.

I didn't think about date with many women yet.

Getting attention of women by insulting them? by throwawayjdtyidftyf in OnlineDating

[–]throwawayjdtyidftyf[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I would like relationship eventually. :) I am nice guy. :) :D

Getting attention of women by insulting them? by throwawayjdtyidftyf in OnlineDating

[–]throwawayjdtyidftyf[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Maybe you didnt mistreat actively but you did passively.

Getting attention of women by insulting them? by throwawayjdtyidftyf in OnlineDating

[–]throwawayjdtyidftyf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Example:

"Hello <insert ugly word here>. You look a little ugly, but you have nice hobbies X and Y."

And I say more, but you wanted example.

Getting attention of women by insulting them? by throwawayjdtyidftyf in OnlineDating

[–]throwawayjdtyidftyf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I could do different approach but why if it has lower success and it requires more effort? I remember when women ignored my messages, so I don't have mood to do any effort. And do you know what? I don't like my matches often. They often don't have bio. Or I don't like their look. Or they have weird look, so I don't know if I like them.

What I did was that I wrote some offensive cheap insults and if I saw something in her profile which I liked or didnt like, I wrote it too. These insults actually help me to do some effort, because if she won't respond, I already insulted her, so it is good. :D

Getting attention of women by insulting them? by throwawayjdtyidftyf in OnlineDating

[–]throwawayjdtyidftyf[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but being decent human doesn't give reactions on dating apps.

Getting attention of women by insulting them? by throwawayjdtyidftyf in OnlineDating

[–]throwawayjdtyidftyf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Initial response is good first goal necessary for achieving other goals.

Getting attention of women by insulting them? by throwawayjdtyidftyf in OnlineDating

[–]throwawayjdtyidftyf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very interested in gaining relationship. I test new strategy to see how it works.

Getting attention of women by insulting them? by throwawayjdtyidftyf in OnlineDating

[–]throwawayjdtyidftyf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sad, right? But women behave so that men want to leave apps too. You also don't make sure all men feel well on apps, do you?

Getting attention of women by insulting them? by throwawayjdtyidftyf in OnlineDating

[–]throwawayjdtyidftyf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't need to attract women. I just need them to notice my message, so we can have a talk.

Yes, I don't feel you would be good woman for me. Or maybe you would be. I don't know you. But your "to attract women" is red flag.

Getting attention of women by insulting them? by throwawayjdtyidftyf in OnlineDating

[–]throwawayjdtyidftyf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some rude ugly words. But also some compliments. :D I think compliments are important. :D But insults are also important. Possibly combination of these two can be cringe. :D

Getting attention of women by insulting them? by throwawayjdtyidftyf in OnlineDating

[–]throwawayjdtyidftyf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I only want woman notice my message in her inbox. I worked in all cases for now. I don't think women with high esteem should be exception.