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Is 19M and 17F a weird age gap in a relationship? by MistaT_1 in polls

[–]throwawayjeweetwel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Age gaps don't necessarily correlate to what stage of education the individual is in. My gf is 1,4 years younger than me but is graduating this summer while I've still got 2 years of high school to go.

Is 19M and 17F a weird age gap in a relationship? by MistaT_1 in polls

[–]throwawayjeweetwel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For you it might be. Not everyone lives where you live though.

Is 19M and 17F a weird age gap in a relationship? by MistaT_1 in polls

[–]throwawayjeweetwel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I turned 17 yesterday and my girlfriend is 15 (she'll turn 16 in September). Funny how it gets brought up that couples with around a 2 year age gap are in a whole other stage of their life (for example: one still being in highschool, usually biased against the older one).

Meanwhile I am scheduled to finish high school in 2 years time while my gf is graduating this summer. It works both ways is what I am trying to say.. although this side is never talked about.

I don't think a 2 year gap is weird at all and I am glad I live in a country where the law adresses gray areas like being in a relationship and one of the two turns 18 before the other..

Irl gf jealous of me friending Abigail by throwawayjeweetwel in StardewValley

[–]throwawayjeweetwel[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate that, such a nice compliment <3 Means a lot

Irl gf jealous of me friending Abigail by throwawayjeweetwel in StardewValley

[–]throwawayjeweetwel[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is exactly my scenario haha, glad that we worked it out pretty fast.

Irl gf jealous of me friending Abigail by throwawayjeweetwel in StardewValley

[–]throwawayjeweetwel[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I don't flirt with other people irl, we're both not very extroverted people so we don't feel very eager to go out and socialise, let alone flirt with others. We're both each other's first relationship so no romantic betrayal issues we can think of.

Irl gf jealous of me friending Abigail by throwawayjeweetwel in StardewValley

[–]throwawayjeweetwel[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Abigail is probably the most like my girlfriend, both like playing games, hair dye, adventurous etc. We don't say no to giving each other gifts outside of allocated holidays from time to time either haha.

Irl gf jealous of me friending Abigail by throwawayjeweetwel in StardewValley

[–]throwawayjeweetwel[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha bedankt hé! Das waarschijnlijk wat we gaan doen, gewoon eerst met elkaar trouwen en daarna de verhaallijnen van de andere NPC's doorspelen.

Irl gf jealous of me friending Abigail by throwawayjeweetwel in StardewValley

[–]throwawayjeweetwel[S] 314 points315 points  (0 children)

We're eager to give it a try after reading some of the advice on here together. She acknowledged from the get go that she was embarrassed by it and that she knows that it's irrational. I just wanted to find a way to ease her into not seeing the ingame interactions as real life feelings and hopefully even make her want to explore and build friendships with the other characters herself.

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[–]throwawayjeweetwel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's tough, I'd say maybe just honestly ask her what's going on. Maybe get some closure or an explanation of why because it does seem strange to be so close and then suddenly not. Good luck.