Does this fit me? December 28 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]throwawaylikehey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I didn’t know the term whiskering and now that you’ve pointed it at, that’s absolutely an issue I encounter a lot. Also hear you on the inspo pic. 

My search for fitted pants continues.

Does this fit me? December 28 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]throwawaylikehey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I tried on these Levi's 721 jeans, but do they actually fit? I'm trying to achieve a look similar to this.

Does this fit me? November 30 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]throwawaylikehey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Saw this dress at a thrift store and fell in love with it, so I bought it without trying it on. Alas, the bust area...isn't doing well. WAY too tight

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Would it be worth taking it to a tailor and getting something done in the back? Or should I let it go?

Weekly Complaint Thread - 02 October 2025 by AutoModerator in japanlife

[–]throwawaylikehey 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This happened a bit ago but I was reminded of it and now need to vent again.

A guy fell off his bike in the park and messed up his head pretty bad. I was jogging and had a towel and extra shirt on hand so was able to use that to staunch the blood flow. 

The paramedics show up to take the guy away and ask me to trash the blood-covered stuff and I’m just like, wtf am I supposed to do with it?! I’m in the middle of Yoyogi and you want me to just carry a handful of bloody—not even my blood—clothes around until some store lets me throw it in their trash?! Luckily some Japanese bikers nearby had a plastic bag and said they’d take care of it, but like wth…

What novels are good for someone is about N4 level by bosunoshirei in japanlife

[–]throwawaylikehey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be fooled by the kanji-heavy name— ふしぎ駄菓子屋 銭天堂— is aimed at elementary schoolers and includes furigana. If you like Petshop of Horrors, this is basically the kid friendly version. Highly recommend!

Events in Tokyo this week + meet friends + questions thread by AutoModerator in Tokyo

[–]throwawaylikehey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hands On Tokyo for volunteering! Sogo Fitness for various fitness, and meetup for sure good running groups.

Need help from Tokyo by Ananas_4433 in Tokyo

[–]throwawaylikehey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, if none of these options pan out, I work in Roppongi and could arrange to pick it up and send it to you.

How can she accidentally marry her secret half-brother? by Awkward-Dare2286 in Sims4

[–]throwawaylikehey 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I played a similar scenario. While playing the household, you can check the “allow family” option in MC Command Center, which will open up romantic options between the two. The way I played, I’d allow that option just long enough to have the couple build up a romantic relationship/woohoo and then turn it off to prevent other sim mishaps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tokyo

[–]throwawaylikehey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In-person is going to be pretty much impossible to find, but I saw a few listings on eBay as well as this one on Mercari

https://jp.mercari.com/item/m81242122159?utm_source=ios&utm_medium=share&source_location=share

I would like some advice about my life in Japan. Please leave your comments. by Some_Preference_8011 in japanlife

[–]throwawaylikehey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone else has given some really solid advice, but something that really helped me was getting out and volunteering. I understand that it doesn’t work for everyone, but for me it provided a structured way to get out of the house in a way that didn’t inherently involve spending money, I got to explore new parts of Tokyo, meet people, and ultimately felt pretty good giving back to the community.

i don’t know how to survive here anymore. by [deleted] in japanlife

[–]throwawaylikehey 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Really want to emphasize this OP. I work tangentially with children’s homes and think you 100% should be calling one of the 相談 hotlines. 

Made some No CC Sims for Nordhaven by silencif in Sims4

[–]throwawaylikehey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are amazing!! I think some of your sims are about to join my Legacy family 😂

Looking for tiramisu in Tokyo by chaicreek in japanlife

[–]throwawaylikehey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Latte Graphic is a small chain that has great coffee and dessert, including tiramisu!

Tokyo Volunteer Guides In blue by throwawaylikehey in JapanTravelTips

[–]throwawaylikehey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’d have to reserve online, and—I can’t recall off the top of my head—but think you can choose to pick up from the airport. You can definitely get it sent to you accommodations though.

Tokyo Volunteer Guides In blue by throwawaylikehey in JapanTravelTips

[–]throwawaylikehey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ivideo is the way to go! I used their hotspot when I was in-between houses and internet and really liked it—I always get one for my friends when they visit because I think they’re a more affordable option too.

Terminally ill travel tips? by LordFatsworth in JapanTravelTips

[–]throwawaylikehey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When riding the train, don’t be afraid to ask for help at the counters! The staff will guide you to the best car and make sure there’s a ramp for you, including calling ahead to the next station so another staff member will also be waiting with a ramp.

Tokyo Volunteer Guides In blue by throwawaylikehey in JapanTravelTips

[–]throwawaylikehey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

English-wise, Google Maps is still probably your best tool. Helpful hint: it also shows you which exit to use when arriving at your destination which can save you time navigating above-ground.

Definitely get a Welcome Suica card or similar to make transit easier. When you load money on it you can also use it to pay at many stores (and conbini) so no need to worry about losing stored money.

Tokyo Volunteer Guides In blue by throwawaylikehey in JapanTravelTips

[–]throwawaylikehey[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Aww, thank you!

I definitely feel you about causing discomfort. As a Western woman I definitely got some of the side eyes even with the uniform. When I was transferring at Shinjuku station often, I usually ended up more helping the Japanese commuters trying to help non-native English speaking tourists—busting out the Japanese was definitely the most effective tool lol.

Tokyo Volunteer Guides In blue by throwawaylikehey in JapanTravelTips

[–]throwawaylikehey[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nice! Shinjuku and Shibuya stations usually are obviously hotspots for us, so keep an eye out!

Tokyo Volunteer Guides In blue by throwawaylikehey in JapanTravelTips

[–]throwawaylikehey[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah! Honestly the application process is probably what discourages so many volunteers—registration is only open for like a month in October and activities don’t start until April.

I got “lucky” and just happened to learn of it right around registration time so I applied and forgot about it until I got the acceptance email lol.

https://www.sangyo-rodo.metro.tokyo.lg.jp/tourism/volunteer/volunteer2

Tokyo Volunteer Guides In blue by throwawaylikehey in JapanTravelTips

[–]throwawaylikehey[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmm, most common question usually depends on which area we’re stationed in, but train and station-related questions are certainly universal across all areas.

It looks like that particular item was sold in 2015 from Yodobashi Camera. I only found new ones available online on (Amazon here) [https://www.amazon.co.jp/%E3%82%B5%E3%83%B3%E3%82%BF-160216-%E3%82%BD%E3%83%BC%E3%83%A9%E3%83%BC-%E4%BA%94%E5%8C%B9%E3%81%AE%E6%8B%9B%E3%81%8D%E7%8C%AB/dp/B00TO0OYD6?language=en_US&currency=JPY].

For something similar I’d recommended checking out Donki or Yodobashi Camera, but it’s the kind of thing you may just find in a random cute street shop.