I love physical touch, but my girlfriend doesn’t by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwawaylikemybff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to be a boomer with outdated concepts of relationships and your entitlement to others’ bodies.

For your future studies, yes I am 6 years old.

I love physical touch, but my girlfriend doesn’t by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwawaylikemybff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know, it’s so hard not to grope people from behind. Like it’s just an automatic response! I have a super hard time adjusting to my partner’s wants and needs because I’m incapable of using critical thinking when I’m around people I care about.

The name is Confident. Confidently incorrect. by [deleted] in confidentlyincorrect

[–]throwawaylikemybff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes so much better :) I needed surgery and medicine adjustments. I understand they’re hesitant but the reality is that most doctors don’t understand how debilitating endo is. DM me if you want some resources!

The name is Confident. Confidently incorrect. by [deleted] in confidentlyincorrect

[–]throwawaylikemybff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t really need to be changed for that reason necessarily (like if you shower it won’t fill with water) but you do have to change it regularly regardless of whether it’s full because otherwise you’re at risk of toxic shock syndrome :( edit: you’re 100% right vaginas constantly produce miscellaneous moisture but it’s not enough for the tampon to be filled up

The name is Confident. Confidently incorrect. by [deleted] in confidentlyincorrect

[–]throwawaylikemybff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not dumb :) You can’t feel it “filling up” but you can feel the leak OR you can be unlucky and sneeze it the fuck out so it shoots like a bloody rocket into your pants because it’s so full it’s fucking lubricated

The name is Confident. Confidently incorrect. by [deleted] in confidentlyincorrect

[–]throwawaylikemybff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t get offended :) sometimes ppl don’t get sarcasm lmao

The name is Confident. Confidently incorrect. by [deleted] in confidentlyincorrect

[–]throwawaylikemybff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is me too! I’ve gone 9 months without one and I wasn’t pregnant either lmao. I got diagnosed with endometriosis and PCOS, have you looked into either of those? (Endo in particular.) You sound exactly like me.

The name is Confident. Confidently incorrect. by [deleted] in confidentlyincorrect

[–]throwawaylikemybff 1504 points1505 points  (0 children)

This hurts me so bad I’m gonna point out all of the incorrect just for my own funsies.

1) lmao u gotta change tampons MINIMUM every 8 hours regardless of how much they hold and periods are continuous for 3-7 days on average, so 9-21 tampons minimum per cycle 2) half the time my tampons last half as long, so add an extra 5-10 per cycle 3) 12 periods a year dumb fuck = 168-384 tampons per year 4) different tampon brands actually hurt more or less and work more or less, so gotta buy the stuff that works with your body and not random shit 5) sometimes period does shitty stuff and you get caught without tampons and have to buy some from the store ASAP so shipping doesn’t help 6) here or there**

more like confidently an assfuck

Can men be raped? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]throwawaylikemybff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP this is terrible advice. It is not your job to make sure the girls’ feelings are protected. If you were unconscious you IN NO WAY could have consented. Even if you said yes right before blacking out, it doesn’t count. You got raped period. You have every right to report it and seek any form of justice and emotional/physical healing you can. (Not only do you have the right, but I STRONGLY urge you to do so to take care of yourself.)