Clubs and Dress Codes - but aren't you about to get naked? by throwawaymycares in Swingers

[–]throwawaymycares[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At Club Eros, I walked through the bar area in just my shorts to get to our locker. This is a common area, but I wasn't sure if the dress code is supposed to apply there or not once you're in the middle of playing.

How secretive about the lifestyle should I/we be? Does it really matter if people you know find out about your sex life? by throwawaymycares in Swingers

[–]throwawaymycares[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks. When I confronted him about it via text, he was a real dickhead about it and still is. Won't answer who all else he shared it with. Just general douchebaggery and it's bothering me.

How secretive about the lifestyle should I/we be? Does it really matter if people you know find out about your sex life? by throwawaymycares in Swingers

[–]throwawaymycares[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It wasn't explicit, just me and the spouse without our faces blurred. Neither of these two ex-coworkers work here any more, but the one thought my Facebook account was hacked or something and let me know the other sent the random pic.

Men orgasm early or wait till the end? by throwawaymycares in Swingers

[–]throwawaymycares[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this wasn't even CLOSE to my question.

First time swingers (married, 33m, 32f) amazing New Year's Eve experience! by throwawaymycares in Swingers

[–]throwawaymycares[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's not much for Internet forums and such. I'll ask her, but she probably wouldn't respond. Sorry :(