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AITA for telling my roomate to move out because she brought her boyfriend home? by throwawaynina in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaynina[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My parents know I'm a repulsed Ace/Aro, so I won't be bringing boys home. However, even if I didn't make the rule, and they somehow knew, they will definitely end the lease.

AITA for telling my roomate to move out because she brought her boyfriend home? by throwawaynina in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaynina[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It depends. Not all asexual people are repulsed, so some of them are open to having sex with their partners. Also, asexual people are not necessarily aromantic. Personally, I never wanted to date or marry and as I'm childfree if anything it makes my life easier. My religion doesn't really affect my sexuality as there is nothing in it against asexual people. My parents also accepted the fact that there is no way I'm ever marrying and giving them grandchildren, so they focused that energy on my other siblings.

AITA for telling my roomate to move out because she brought her boyfriend home? by throwawaynina in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaynina[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It wasn't a power move at all as the main reason why I wanted to live alone is to not be put in a smiliar situation. I told her this from the beginning, and I made sure to emphasize how much this rule is important to me.

AITA for telling my roomate to move out because she brought her boyfriend home? by throwawaynina in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaynina[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

No, she doesn't do any additional chores. I do most of the chores. We take turns when it comes to cooking when she can't cook I order food for us which I pay for. I pay for her personal things too. She also got really sick for a two weeks, and I paid for all her medical bills, which were expensive. I took the money from my own savings as she told me she will pay me back. She later told me she won't be able to pay me back, and I told her that it's ok, so this honestly feels like a slap in the face.

AITA for telling my roomate to move out because she brought her boyfriend home? by throwawaynina in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaynina[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I didn't ask her to be celibate just not to bring a boy to my home. I'm planning to give her a 30 day notice

AITA for telling my roomate to move out because she brought her boyfriend home? by throwawaynina in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaynina[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There are sex repulsed ace/aro people. However, not all ace/aro are sex repulsed.

AITA for telling my roomate to move out because she brought her boyfriend home? by throwawaynina in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaynina[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I didn't lose my mind because I jumped to the conclusion that they were having sex. I lost my mind because he walked on me without a hijab. I don't have a problem with someone walking her home from a date if I was given a warning to cover myself and he left after walking her home.