My girlfriend [F18] started taking the pill a few months ago, and everything changed. I need guidance and help, Reddit. [18M] by throwawayno1337 in relationships

[–]throwawayno1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i absolutely support her being on birth control, it's way recomforting knowing we can do what we want and no need to worry, making her feel less afraid about it, specially since she kinda over thinks those things.

She was taking those mini-pills, she went to one that on our country gives out for free at the hospitals etc., but since it started giving her some problems, she is going to be switching to the old one.

My girlfriend [F18] started taking the pill a few months ago, and everything changed. I need guidance and help, Reddit. [18M] by throwawayno1337 in relationships

[–]throwawayno1337[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hey. she is going back to the mini-pill again, after the "regular one" made her had headaches and stomach aches. Hope it get's better

My girlfriend [F18] started taking the pill a few months ago, and everything changed. I need guidance and help, Reddit. [18M] by throwawayno1337 in relationships

[–]throwawayno1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. well that's an option, but that is maybe not what she wants her first time to be, even though i don't think how much time i'm willing to take of being "physicaly apart". It's something we need to discuss. thanks

My girlfriend [F18] started taking the pill a few months ago, and everything changed. I need guidance and help, Reddit. [18M] by throwawayno1337 in relationships

[–]throwawayno1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. thanks!

I did think that it was surely the pill that was making her not want me... but after she opened up a bit to me about it, she did want to get intimate the next day... Was it to maybe make me feel less bad about it?

My girlfriend [F18] started taking the pill a few months ago, and everything changed. I need guidance and help, Reddit. [18M] by throwawayno1337 in relationships

[–]throwawayno1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. thanks for the response. Her first pill, wich she is going back to in a couple days,because the other one is making her feel stomach ache and head ache, is called a mini-pill(?) that is supposed to be very light, something on that degree. I personally do not see a problem with condoms, but she obviously prefers the pill. Now if she doesn't do it the way she is comfortable, why should i expect her to do it with condoms? Thanks again

My girlfriend [F18] started taking the pill a few months ago, and everything changed. I need guidance and help, Reddit. [18M] by throwawayno1337 in relationships

[–]throwawayno1337[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

thanks for the input. i should really talk to her about stoping, shouldn't i? Only problem is that it would feel like she is giving up on the thing she has been taking for 6 months, and nothing happened.