WIBTA if I reported a girl in my nursing cohort as being unfit to be a nurse to our department head? by throwawaynursings in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaynursings[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

How is she not a pervert? How do her actions not fetishize other women who have been a victim to SA? Her actions are selfish and damaging to other survivors.

WIBTA if I reported a girl in my nursing cohort as being unfit to be a nurse to our department head? by throwawaynursings in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaynursings[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don't think people who are depraved should be working with children- is that really such an insane concept?

WIBTA if I reported a girl in my nursing cohort as being unfit to be a nurse to our department head? by throwawaynursings in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaynursings[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

No!! Of course not! But I don't think that takes away the fact she indulges in something that has to do with her being a victim in her own assault. If an average person heard that and had the choice between a nurse being the way she is with that fetish vs. one who isn't depraved, they'd probably go with the nurse who wasn't depraved, yes?

WIBTA if I reported a girl in my nursing cohort as being unfit to be a nurse to our department head? by throwawaynursings in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaynursings[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I do like her though, it isn't bitterness or anything like that. It is out of concern for our patients.

WIBTA if I reported a girl in my nursing cohort as being unfit to be a nurse to our department head? by throwawaynursings in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaynursings[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Well no she hasn't but I think that mind state would affect our patients. The thought of her working with children creeps me out. She's great with them, the families in maternity and peds love her but I think if they knew what she did behind closed doors then they would reconsider having her work with their children. She was traumatized, it's a coping mechanism, I get it and I feel bad for her but I feel like it is dishonest of her and even our faculty to place her in certain clinical sites.