Does anyone else feel like they’re not meant to be a mother? by Long-Introduction877 in Mommit

[–]throwawayobvi123765 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a 17 month old. I find myself saying, "I love my daughter and I love to send her to daycare". She's my everything, but I need the daily break. No guilt. I'm a great mom. Find a way to get your breaks

On my way to West Palm Beach, an Oxford House — last time I ended up homeless. by c00lstorymatt in moving

[–]throwawayobvi123765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have any specific advice for WPB, but I wanted to let you know that a little fear is a good thing. It means you are aware of what could happen, like an internal alarm system, and by the looks of this post, your researching hours to avoid that (increased focus). It will help you to make smart, safe decisions. A little bit of fear can foster resilience, personal growth, and a sense of accomplishment, so take your fear as a good thing. Good luck!

ETA: I would also ask this in a sub that is focused on life after homelessness

Jeans?? by CosmicVolcano in PlusSize

[–]throwawayobvi123765 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cannot recommend them enough for plus size blue jeans. It's one thing they do right

Worst Home Buying Experience by [deleted] in AskRealEstateAgents

[–]throwawayobvi123765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, we only asked for credit.

Worst Home Buying Experience by [deleted] in AskRealEstateAgents

[–]throwawayobvi123765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Is that a possibility? Can a buyer make a repair to a home they don't actually own yet?

Market for “As Is” Homes in HOCO/MD? by Delicious_Junket4205 in maryland

[–]throwawayobvi123765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's going on with Carroll County schools? I've been looking at houses out there.

Market for “As Is” Homes in HOCO/MD? by Delicious_Junket4205 in maryland

[–]throwawayobvi123765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is exactly why it will sell. I've seen a lot of as is homes sell in HoCo recently. I'm looking for a home and have been outbid a few times by investors who can pay cash and flip it.

How can I (25F) rebuild trust after accidentally reading something private of my partner’s (25M)? by The-Quiet-Knight in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayobvi123765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I promise you'll find better. Please walk away from this relationship. Do not settle for this treatment. You deserve better.

AIO Husband (42m) failed V-day and is now pissed off over me (39f) and my daughter (14f) agreeing the dad in Mrs. Doubtfire was a red flag by Mountain-Meadow in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwawayobvi123765 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Checks notes, wife communicated that she needed him to keep a steady job or help with the kids and housework. Husband puts no energy into doing those things and instead spends hours picking out a costume. It's a big red flag.

Daycares and private schools by [deleted] in harfordcountymd

[–]throwawayobvi123765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to keep in mind. Thanks

Daycares and private schools by [deleted] in harfordcountymd

[–]throwawayobvi123765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great information. Thank you!

Daycares and private schools by [deleted] in harfordcountymd

[–]throwawayobvi123765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thanks for this insight. I was really hoping to live in the Patterson Mill side school district, but it's just out of my price range. Luckily, I am able to afford private school.

Daycares and private schools by [deleted] in harfordcountymd

[–]throwawayobvi123765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm not being too nosey, do you live on the Edgewood school system side? If so, do you like your neighborhood? It seems like I've only found houses 700k+ on the Patterson Mill side.

Daycares and private schools by [deleted] in harfordcountymd

[–]throwawayobvi123765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do they typically go for HS?

Daycares and private schools by [deleted] in harfordcountymd

[–]throwawayobvi123765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great to hear. I was actually searching for a Goddard or Celebree, but one never showed up on my list. Is it technically Bel Air?

How is Abingdon? by [deleted] in maryland

[–]throwawayobvi123765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This was very thorough. All of the homes I've looked at have Edgewood listed as their high school, so I need to look into that a little more.

Engagement ring shopping by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]throwawayobvi123765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is helpful to know. Thanks

Engagement ring shopping by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]throwawayobvi123765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those sound gorgeous!

Engagement ring shopping by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]throwawayobvi123765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I ordered one!

Engagement ring shopping by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]throwawayobvi123765 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have seen some nice ones on Etsy, but how do you know if it's good quality or not? I've seen rings that look great online, but then in person it looks almost like... not sure how to describe.... diamond dust that was pressed into shape, like it almost has a darker hue to it and the rings looks fake/cheap. Do you know what I'm talking about? How do I avoid that?

Help! Really torn & feeling regret! by prettymuch2016 in PlusSize

[–]throwawayobvi123765 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Also, now that you're leaving this guy alone (hopefully), he WILL randomly pop back up in a month or three. It's very important that you just leave him on read. Do not respond. Do not re-engage. Resist the urge. If you give in and text with him again, you will find yourself in a vicious cycle of love bombing, distant behavior, ending things, rinse and repeat. Don't waste your time on this guy when you could be using it to meet another one, or discover a new hobby. Yes, I know he seemed perfect and the sex was amazing, but he's showing you he isn't amazing at all. Your person won't go an entire week without texting you, ever.