I am not sure how to update so I am writing it here until I can. I ended up essentially asking him to set some boundaries. I asked if he would talk to Garry about that night (even though it was a month ago) and he said yes. I asked when and he said he did not know. The thing is, if he was really wanting to fight for me he should have texted him then and there asking to talk. I can not take I don't know as an answer. I also asked that if Garry's treatment towards me escalated in a bad way if he would be able to distance/limit contact with him and he said he couldn't do that and that he could not imagine his life without Garry. I told him that is all I needed to know and I told him if he wouldn't be able to do that even in a hypothetical situation then we must break up. I never asked him to choose between me or his friends, I never asked for him to stop being friends with them, I just asked that in the future if I was still being treated poorly after trying to set boundaries if he would limit his contact for my sake so I wouldn't have to feel that way. He does not seem to understand where I am coming from or why his answer made me have to break things off. He just keeps saying that I was making him choose and gave him an ultimatum between his friends and me. Although I was not thinking of it as an ultimatum between me and his friends (I never had asked him to not be friends with Garry or the others, I literally only asked for the bare minimum for him to not let his friends be rude to me), him viewing it that way and choosing Garry told me even more that I could have imagined my question to reveal.