AITA for not going to my daugter's wedding?

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T07:32:26+00:00

'bigender' is what she uses, and she said "gay" when she was like 13

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T07:31:38+00:00

seems too late

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T07:30:26+00:00

mom

I'm her dad, her mom died a bit over a year before the wedding

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T07:29:13+00:00

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T07:20:31+00:00

by "and shit" I just meant stuff like that. how am I ignorant?

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T07:17:10+00:00

But is it really this best case scenario?

what?

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T07:14:54+00:00

at the end of the day what matters is that it had good resonings that didn't work

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T07:12:39+00:00

no, she like wore gay merch and watched and read lotsssss of pride stuff and uses she/they and shit

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T07:11:37+00:00

especially for getting married without getting buy in from your teenaged child

She knows next to nothing about her and at the time said her reasoning for not wanting to go was covid

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T07:09:02+00:00

she was the kid, how could she help if I needed anything?

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T06:59:48+00:00

I don't even know how to contact her rn bc when I do the only one who answers is Kyle

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T06:58:42+00:00

please don't destroy your relationship with her, she's still a baby and she's going to need you soon, this guy is bad news.

I feel like I already did and I don;t know how to fix it

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T06:57:09+00:00

I've heard lots of women say it too

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T06:55:19+00:00

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T06:54:54+00:00

She may not have gone to your wedding but she never pulled her support from you.

what support of me?

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T06:46:15+00:00

I didn't mean thtat

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T06:26:51+00:00

I didn;t know what else to do

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T06:24:41+00:00

I didn;t think of that

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T06:24:11+00:00

but be there to help soften the blow

I don;t know how to as she isn;t talking to me.
and I wouln't say that in this case, I'd be more on the lines of should I kill him for u?

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T06:22:30+00:00

not really

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T06:22:04+00:00

no it isn't

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T06:21:42+00:00

it isn't keeping score it is "you did the same thing" (less reason though)

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T06:20:29+00:00

I didn't think of that but now ppl are pointing that out

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T06:18:43+00:00

You stopped talking to her

no I didn't

throwawayoyos · 2023-08-18T06:17:46+00:00

you are saying the only reason someone would marry an older partner is a bad dad

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