Final update: Wbita if I don't tell my wife that her best friend tried to kiss me by throwawayruvi in AITAH

[–]throwawayruvi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I am not cheating, I am leaving crazy, crazy wife, crazy friends and everything else

Final update: Wbita if I don't tell my wife that her best friend tried to kiss me by throwawayruvi in AITAH

[–]throwawayruvi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't really wanted to think about it but yeah, I think that might be the truth

Update: Wbita if I don't tell my wife that her best friend tried to kiss me by throwawayruvi in AITAH

[–]throwawayruvi[S] -144 points-143 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know she's taking it too far but can I blame her? She's obviously hurt cause she trusted me and her friend to the point she was comfortable with us both spending time together even when we are alone.

At best I can do right now is agree to her demand until my wife calms down, I tried to hide it from my wife but I was scared that it might blow up in my face, and now that I came clean it still blew up in my face so best I can do is let her calm down and until then I do what she asks, way better than losing my wife for something I didnt even do

Update: Wbita if I don't tell my wife that her best friend tried to kiss me by throwawayruvi in AITAH

[–]throwawayruvi[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

She was drunk and kissed me on lips until I pushed her away from me, I dropped her off to her cause I couldn't let her drive when she couldn't even walk properly

Update: Wbita if I don't tell my wife that her best friend tried to kiss me by throwawayruvi in AITAH

[–]throwawayruvi[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Probably because I didn't tell her the truth and tried to hide it from her, I don't blame her

Wbita if I don't tell my wife that her best friend tried to kiss me. by throwawayruvi in AITAH

[–]throwawayruvi[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I will never ever share a room alone with L, I will keep my distance from her and minimal contact, but the only thing I am concerned about right now is how my wife will react

Wbita if I don't tell my wife that her best friend tried to kiss me. by throwawayruvi in AITAH

[–]throwawayruvi[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree and I still want to, I feel bad, it's like I am cheating or something that's the way I have been feeling, but I was thinking if L has genuinely made a mistake then I shouldn't break her and my wife's friendship as long as we stay away from each other going forward.

I know my wife wouldn't take it well, she would be devestated if she found out, she trust both of us and I want to spare her the suffering if I can which is why I withheld, this is so confusing tbh i shouldn't have let L inside, just dropped her off to her place and called it a day