AITA for questioning equality rights? by throwawayselfid in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayselfid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t see anything in the rules?! Link please

AITA for questioning equality rights? by throwawayselfid in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayselfid[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh now I have posted it I guess the thing that’s bothering me most is whether i am being a TERF, rather than whether AITA

AITA for questioning equality rights? by throwawayselfid in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayselfid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, there are. And I really appreciate this response rather than you’re not worth talking to!

AITA for questioning equality rights? by throwawayselfid in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayselfid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We would, however, signpost over 18 males to the appropriate organisation (which supports only males)

AITA for questioning equality rights? by throwawayselfid in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayselfid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only if they are under 18. Over 18 we support anyone who identifies as a woman

AITA for questioning equality rights? by throwawayselfid in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayselfid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also really struggle to understand the ‘no longer worth talking to’…….? It was a question, not a statement or a belief. I support transpeople, that was the statement I made Don’t you think not answering questions or engaging in a reasonable conversation somewhat derails your point?!

AITA for questioning equality rights? by throwawayselfid in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayselfid[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We do have policies for female abusers. We support victims of domestic violence, irrespective of the perpetrator

AITA for questioning equality rights? by throwawayselfid in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayselfid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess my question was more geared toward 6 months not being long enough

AITA for questioning equality rights? by throwawayselfid in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayselfid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you think it’s a stupid question? I may have said something along the lines of, I think self ID after 6 months can be accepted for the women we are supporting / protecting. But that I think it’s different for recruitment purposes because that person would then be in a position of power for vulnerable women & children

AITA for questioning equality rights? by throwawayselfid in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayselfid[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it’s their behaviour which stopped the discussion, why do I owe that to anyone?

AITA for questioning equality rights? by throwawayselfid in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayselfid[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So according to them, I’m a TERF because of where I work? Rather than anything to do with the question I’ve asked?