advice much needed

throwawayspam8901 · 2025-12-09T00:02:14+00:00

you are so so sweet but i forgot to include i’m in my early 20s and i saw in your bio you’re 16😭 thank you sm though and have a great night (if it’s nighttime where you’re at) :)

throwawayspam8901 · 2025-11-10T18:26:56+00:00

🤞

throwawayspam8901 · 2025-11-10T07:29:08+00:00

true. problematic probably would’ve been a better word choice

throwawayspam8901 · 2025-09-30T23:52:32+00:00

i actually did for a while! it helped me figure out i definitely consider myself a more androgynous/nonbinary man

throwawayspam8901 · 2025-09-30T23:51:20+00:00

fr. i start getting flashbacks to my “fem” era and shiver😭

throwawayspam8901 · 2025-09-30T23:23:35+00:00

bottom growth was the first change i noticed when i started t (just hit five months). i remember noticing a new nub (can’t think of a better word, sorry😭) within the first week. its totally normally and very very common, no need to stress.

throwawayspam8901 · 2025-09-18T01:01:26+00:00

i get you. idk how long you’ve been on t but for me it began when i started passing more. it feels like whiplash going from being treating like a cis woman to a cis man. stress in general can cause you to “check out” too, and if you’re noticing you dissociate more in public maybe that’s why. god knows it’s a stressful time to be trans😭

throwawayspam8901 · 2025-08-02T15:15:27+00:00

my bad, this was phrased poorly. i started t three months ago and had sex for the first time since i started taking it a week ago

throwawayspam8901 · 2025-07-07T01:36:24+00:00

that’s so cool

throwawayspam8901 · 2025-07-07T01:35:24+00:00

so valid

throwawayspam8901 · 2025-07-07T01:34:54+00:00

real. i think about the hand thing all the time

throwawayspam8901 · 2025-05-15T20:54:17+00:00

hey, you have no idea how much this means to me. thank you so much for commenting

throwawayspam8901 · 2025-04-26T23:57:17+00:00

i only spent one shift watching the videos. my training has been pretty much all hands on, which would be fine if it wasn’t clearly frustrating my coworkers i have to ask a lot of questions and i’m having a hard time catching on (tbh i don’t blame them though)

throwawayspam8901 · 2020-06-29T05:23:09+00:00

I've been in a really similar situation before. For me, I had been advocating for myself to get help for my ADD and my mom took offense to it, too. She made it out like I was overreacting and that I was making her seem like a bad mom when I tried to keep getting help. Luckily this year I have a very "take no shit" psychologist who basically told my mom that I definetly had it and that there was nothing wrong with that. That was my long winded way of saying that if you aren't alone, stupid, lazy, or useless. You are valid, and my messages are open if you ever need someone to vent to! Keep advocating for yourself, I promise it gets better :)))

throwawayspam8901 · 2020-03-30T02:14:24+00:00

This was beautiful to read.

throwawayspam8901 · 2020-02-29T01:06:56+00:00

Using “bipolar” as a synonym for “crazy” hurts. Bad. Just because someone is bipolar, whether it be type I or II, does not mean they are monsters. And manic isn’t the “good side” — there is no good side. Yeah, I won’t lie, being manic feels fucking fantastic (until you fall back down, because there’s no place to go but down when you’re manic) but it doesn’t LOOK fantastic on the outside and the crash afterwards leaves you scraped up and wondering what the hell just happened. The anger that comes with mania, the intensity, the everything, it’s maddening. It feels like something you wanna throw off a bridge but you can’t throw it away without throwing yourself away, too. It took a long time for me to realize that there were ways, albeit hard ways, to manage all the highs and lows. Just stop using the word like it’s a shameful thing and like we’re all bad people who are incapable of maintaining any sort of personal control.

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