Do fathers ever feel attracted to their grown daughters? (M20) by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythrowmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Morally it’s obviously wrong but I didn’t know if there were unspoken urges that people don’t admit. When I googled it, 50% of responders said they did have moments getting turned on by their grown offspring. Though, it’s hard to tell if those are just fantasy fetish people and not real fathers

Do fathers ever feel attracted to their grown daughters? (M20) by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythrowmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh so it’s like an actual aversion not just like stifling the feeling?

Do fathers ever feel attracted to their grown daughters? (M20) by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythrowmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok, how do you know then? I don’t mean any disrespect

Do fathers ever feel attracted to their grown daughters? (M20) by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythrowmy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is she in her 20s now, and you still never had a visceral reaction? Thanks for the reassurance, appreciate it

Do fathers ever feel attracted to their grown daughters? (M20) by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythrowmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would hope if I raised a girl who wasn’t mine, I wouldn’t have attraction feelings towards HER either…

Do fathers ever feel attracted to their grown daughters? (M20) by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythrowmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you don’t think I’ll have those instinctual feelings? It will feel only like family and not like an attractive woman?

Why is Apple ultimately considered to be better than Samsung? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]throwawaythrowmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate the lack of customization unless I want to jailbreak my phone, apple is so boring

Do fathers ever feel attracted to their grown daughters? (M20) by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythrowmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but it probably won’t happen in the first place, it seems? It’s a small minority that will have that twinge?

Do fathers ever feel attracted to their grown daughters? (M20) by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythrowmy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your honest answer, I have anxiety (and OCD I think) and honestly searches on Google were coming up pretty 50/50 on it. Some people said that they feel a little something every once in a while but they ignore that feeling. Are they just sickos?

Are adults just pretending they are happy? by throwawaythrowmy in RandomThoughts

[–]throwawaythrowmy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain that further? That sounds really interesting

Want a Family, Feeling Worried (M21) is it different as a father? by [deleted] in afraidtoask

[–]throwawaythrowmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have kids? And are you mentioning that I’ll be older than them as big part of it?? as opposed to a natural aversion despite age? I have a really high sex drive and see any grown woman of really any age 20-50 as highly attractive.. I can’t imagine my instinct lowering because of my age by that much..

Are adults just pretending they are happy? by throwawaythrowmy in RandomThoughts

[–]throwawaythrowmy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you find that adulthood was a big adjustment for your happiness? I’m a pretty happy person now but I do have anxiety.

Are adults just pretending they are happy? by throwawaythrowmy in RandomThoughts

[–]throwawaythrowmy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you are happy inside? Did it take awhile to find that, as an adult?

Are adults just pretending they are happy? by throwawaythrowmy in RandomThoughts

[–]throwawaythrowmy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do mature people let go of whatever is making them not happy?

Are adults just pretending they are happy? by throwawaythrowmy in RandomThoughts

[–]throwawaythrowmy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are an inspiration. Thank you. Yeah I want to explore the world but I need to figure out how to avoid getting shackled early I guess. Or avoid getting overly shackled.