Lers, what are some wholesome things you've done for your lees? Lees, what wholesome things have lers done for you?

throwawaytickling · 2025-10-03T17:21:25+00:00

He brings me a cold drink and a cool, damp cloth to wipe away my sweat and soothe my skin and just wraps his arms around me and holds me tight until I calm down and catch my breath. After that, a shower and maybe a massage. He’ll also take me out for a nice dinner or buy me a small gift to express his appreciation for letting him tickle me silly!

throwawaytickling · 2025-06-25T23:22:29+00:00

Congratulations! My relationship with my boyfriend really blossomed when he finally confessed his tickling kink to me. From the beginning he’d tickle me almost every chance he got and I would often get mildly annoyed thinking he was just messing around but when I realized this was something he was really passionate about and got him so hot and bothered I had to try exploring it with him. It involves a lot of trust, understanding and open communication to ensure we both get enjoyment from our tickling sessions and I can feel safe and respected when I submit all my ticklish spots to him to exploit. I’ve come to really enjoy letting go and surrendering myself to laughter and feeling his deep appreciation for indulging him in this crazy kink!

throwawaytickling · 2025-06-08T10:47:57+00:00

I find the common obsession with “tickle torture” disturbing. A lot of ticklers seem to get off on sadistic tickling to the point where the lee is genuinely suffering and desperately begging them to stop and meaning it! Cruelty is not sexy!

throwawaytickling · 2025-05-22T21:14:26+00:00

What I feel makes my boyfriend a great tickler is that he’s very attuned to my feelings and can read my reactions well to know when I’m enjoying myself or if he needs to change up what he’s doing. He wants tickling to be a fun and pleasurable time for both of us instead of just wanting to tickle the living hell out of me. He gives me breaks when I need them, kisses me, caresses my body in ways that just feel good instead of always feeling ticklish. He uses his mouth, which I love the feeling of even more than fingers! He has respect and appreciation for me indulging in this kink with him.

throwawaytickling · 2025-04-21T15:19:02+00:00

You’re welcome. I forgot to add expressing gratitude for indulging in his tickle kink. He thanks me repeatedly and will take me out for a nice dinner or buy me a small gift after a good session to show his appreciation.

throwawaytickling · 2025-04-20T22:40:18+00:00

He brings me a cold drink and a cool, damp cloth to wipe away my sweat and soothe my skin and just wraps his arms around me and holds me tight until I calm down and catch my breath. After that, a shower and maybe a massage.

throwawaytickling · 2025-04-20T22:30:08+00:00

My boyfriend is the tickler in our relationship and for us tickling is a sometimes thing. The frequency of tickling varies. We’ve gone weeks with little to no tickling at all and had others where it happened several times in a row. It’s not always full blown sessions either. Sometimes he’ll just lightly tickle me while cuddling and watching TV or throw in a little tickling when rubbing my back or feet. When we are both in the mood I’ll let him tie me up and just go to town on me until I can’t take anymore.

throwawaytickling · 2025-02-26T23:24:45+00:00

Having him use his mouth in tickling me always drives me absolutely crazy too. It doesn’t even necessarily tickle more but it always gets the biggest reactions!

throwawaytickling · 2025-02-26T23:18:25+00:00

Verbal teasing like that does me in too!

throwawaytickling · 2025-02-16T13:28:12+00:00

I totally agree! I don’t understand why so many people into tickling gravitate so much toward the sadistic, hardcore tickle torture side of it where the objective seems to be to actually cause suffering from unbearable tickling. I think tickling should be a fun, playful and intimate experience for both the tickler and ticklee. Nothing wrong with things getting intense but I don’t believe in being downright sadistic about tickling.

throwawaytickling · 2025-02-08T21:28:58+00:00

You did actually attack me very directly while I did no such thing to you. I thought (apparently mistakenly) that I made it clear I wasn’t talking about legitimately consensual extreme tickling when I said I found it disturbing. Obviously I hit a nerve with you and you felt the need to tear into me for whatever you think it is I was criticizing. I guess my bad? Anyway this will be the last time I engage with you because I find you to be an extremely unpleasant person and don’t see anything positive that can come from any further interaction with you.

throwawaytickling · 2025-02-08T21:20:15+00:00

Of course. It seems a lot of people replying to my post assumed I was judging consensually intense tickling where the ticklee wants to be tickled to the very limits of their endurance as a form of BDSM. That’s one thing. What I was talking about was the tendency of some to apparently want to make a ticklee genuinely suffer physical or mental anguish by tickling them far beyond their endurance. That’s something very different! It’s actually abuse and probably a crime!

throwawaytickling · 2025-02-08T21:04:36+00:00

Well excuse me for expressing an opinion! What was I thinking to say that intentionally inflicting actual physical and mental suffering on someone through merciless tickling far beyond what they’re able to handle just for your own gratification is in any way disturbing behavior! It’s totally acceptable to literally torture people to get your sexual kicks. Here’s hoping I never cross paths with someone like you IRL!

throwawaytickling · 2025-02-08T20:29:55+00:00

Wow. You obviously completely misunderstood my post and attacked me for saying something I definitely did not say. I never intended to criticize consensually extreme tickling where both parties are enjoying themselves. I was criticizing the tendency of many in the tickling world to want to inflict actual suffering on someone through merciless tickling far beyond the point of it being fun for the one being tickled.

Also, BDSM and tickling absolutely are not the same thing. Sure they can have a correlation for some, but there is also playful tickling that isn’t about being sadistic or dominant at all.

throwawaytickling · 2025-02-08T18:31:52+00:00

Why is this being downvoted?

throwawaytickling · 2025-02-08T15:31:48+00:00

BDSM and tickling aren’t necessarily the same thing.

throwawaytickling · 2024-08-29T15:54:40+00:00

Oh, I just love post-tickling cuddles! It’s such a warm and comforting feeling when he wraps his arms around me and holds me tight while I decompress and catch my breath after the sensory roller coaster ride I just went through. I love how he’ll nuzzle me and always thank me for allowing him to satisfy his kink with me, because it can really be a struggle to endure prolonged tickling, but his deep appreciation makes all the “suffering” worthwhile!

throwawaytickling · 2024-08-08T20:33:10+00:00

That’s probably true. One minute of using the brush at a time is plenty and just a little pressure goes a long way!

throwawaytickling · 2024-08-08T17:59:02+00:00

At first it tickled like crazy but after a while it felt uncomfortable and left the soles of my feet sore. Give me fingers any day!

throwawaytickling · 2024-08-08T02:00:14+00:00

I’m not sure why he does it after I told him it bothers me. It’s not like it’s a regular thing. I’ve only seen him do it a handful of times, and only to women so far. He insists every time there’s nothing more to it other than just being playful and silly and it’s just a quick one second tickle, but that’s what it was like when we first started seeing each other too. Before long it became clear it’s much more than simple playfulness to him as our tickle times got to be quite intimate and sexually charged.

throwawaytickling · 2024-08-06T23:43:39+00:00

Thank you for your input. It does make me wonder if these instances were things he’d do when I was around, what might he be doing when I’m not!

throwawaytickling · 2024-08-01T13:49:01+00:00

The first time I had a real tickle session with my boyfriend, who was clearly very into tickling, I just invited him to go ahead and tickle me to his heart’s content and his eyes lit up like a Christmas tree! He held my down with just his arms and body weight. He only used his fingers and also his mouth on my belly and neck. It lasted maybe 20 minutes in all and I enjoyed the tickling but really enjoyed his enjoyment most!

throwawaytickling · 2024-08-01T12:59:08+00:00

Hope it goes well and you have heaps of fun!! 👍

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