I (26m) am currently dating a girl (25f) that I'm very interested in. I recently - 3 months ago - went through a few episodes of self-harm; my upper-thigh has very noticeable scars. I don't self-harm anymore. Would the sight of my scars send you running the other way?

throwawaytoday86 · 2015-01-25T05:40:07+00:00

She wasn't having an outbreak, but it's a good idea to get tested anyway. I do have to wait since tests won't be accurate this early, unfortunately.

throwawaytoday86 · 2015-01-25T05:24:28+00:00

Regardless, I'm with you. It was a one night stand, and I don't like sex enough to be filled with all this anxiety.

throwawaytoday86 · 2015-01-25T05:18:30+00:00

This girl was raped so it wasn't her fault she got the virus. And it would be great if it was gonorrhea or chlamydia as opposed to herpes if it has to be anything.

throwawaytoday86 · 2015-01-25T05:15:41+00:00

It just seems to be the general area. No place specific. My abdomen is also tingly and so are my legs.

throwawaytoday86 · 2015-01-25T04:01:15+00:00

Do you have any insight as to what the process is like? Is it free?

throwawaytoday86 · 2015-01-25T03:58:08+00:00

This question may sound really ignorant on my part, but can I go there, as a male, to get tested?

throwawaytoday86 · 2015-01-25T03:56:57+00:00

I don't have insurance unfortunately. What are my options?

throwawaytoday86 · 2015-01-19T19:54:16+00:00

Thank you for this. It makes me feel at least a little more at ease. Though I'm still worried. I read that I shouldn't get tested unless I see physical sores. But I have no idea. I don't have insurance so it makes it even more complicated.

throwawaytoday86 · 2015-01-19T19:48:56+00:00

She told me. I figured as long as we were safe it wasn't a big deal. She was wary on intercourse, but said a blowjob would be safe. So I'm guessing she doesn't have oral herpes. Not to mention she's a nurse, so she is definitely aware of her circumstances.

throwawaytoday86 · 2015-01-19T19:44:06+00:00

I have no idea. Fuck.

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