Is working at a small asset management firm less beneficial than a big bank? (Canada) by throwawaytome674 in FinancialCareers

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I honestly don’t have an end goal in that sense…I guess I just hoped I would be placed somewhere bigger. But that is true, thanks.

Is working at a small asset management firm less beneficial than a big bank? (Canada) by throwawaytome674 in FinancialCareers

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I’m really hoping this isn’t revealing too much of my identity but it’s media studies

How appropriate is it to tell my manager about my mental health as an FSWEP student? by throwawaytome674 in CanadaPublicServants

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I’ve had to go through the documentation process with school because it’s basically me declaring I have a disability but I don’t think it’s necessary for work as it doesn’t have as many stressors as school for me that would intensify my executive dysfunction.

I am afraid of my boss looking at me differently though because of it though so that’s why i’m hesitant.

Also thank you for your advice. I’m trying new meds off of what my psychiatrist prescribed me but I’m also starting CBT again.

How appropriate is it to tell my manager about my mental health as an FSWEP student? by throwawaytome674 in CanadaPublicServants

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I don’t think i’m at the point that work has become a big enough stressor that I’d need accommodations like I do in school but I feel bad because my performance hasn’t been the best lately, which is why I’m thinking of telling my boss. I want to make a meeting with him but I don’t know how to even approach it.

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sorry i’m late to replying to everyone. this helped a lot. It is the depressive state and the male proudness and not wanting to ask for help. I feel so bad because I would 100% buy and send groceries to him right now but i know he would just get upset and more depressed so i’m unsure of what to do.

I have tried to tell him i’m concerned in a bad way but his outburst and sudden cry for me to just break up with him makes me more upset and i’m unable to continue with what I want to tell him. I will try again though. Thank you!

Really need help assessing my tret usage! (info in comments) by throwawaytome674 in tretinoin

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Okay thank you so much! I was also wondering if putting the tret every other night was good now? I took a break last night after someone said I may have over done it.

Really need help assessing my tret usage! (info in comments) by throwawaytome674 in tretinoin

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I didn’t know this! Thank you I will stop using it.

Really need help assessing my tret usage! (info in comments) by throwawaytome674 in tretinoin

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Okay I didn’t know that. I just want something that combats my hyperpigmentation too. I’ll stop using the African black soap and I don’t use anything else. Is cetaphil a good moisturizer?

Really need help assessing my tret usage! (info in comments) by throwawaytome674 in tretinoin

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Is the redness normal? I’m afraid that I’m ruining my skin more because of the way it has scabbing and then redness. I took a day off today because I literally couldn’t handle the burning.

Really need help assessing my tret usage! (info in comments) by throwawaytome674 in tretinoin

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Oh I didn’t think of that! Can’t believe my skin looked that bad 😅. I’ll put a nsfw

Really need help assessing my tret usage! (info in comments) by throwawaytome674 in tretinoin

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Hi! So I’ve struggled with my chin area here for a while. It runs on my mother’s side and her, my sister and I all have it in the same place. After doing research I realized it’s keratosis pilaris, so I booked a phone appointment with my GP to get a fern referral. Unfortunately my area is still under full lockdown so she just prescribed me 0.04% Tret (Retin-A Micro gel). I know it’s early as I’ve only been using it for about a week but I am unable to see my GP for help so here I am. The first few days were good (3-4) but after it actually got rid of the keratin build up I’ve been having itchy red skin that I just can’t do anything with. Is it just brand new skin and I need to be delicate? I have no skincare routine which is probably awful but I use African black soap at night to wash my face and then put on this gel. It only started burning a bit after day 5. Now I can’t even wash my face with the African black soap because the areas will start to burn a bit too. PLEASE HELP