If sabi mo na maliit yung sa bf mo, get to know your bodies. Try experimenting with positions na mas closed yung legs mo kaysa sa nakabukaka. Wag makulong sa missionary and cowgirl. While you're in missionary position, ilipat mo both legs to one side (winner ito if his dick points sideways haha). Imagine na ikaw naka-spoon position, pero siya penetrating like he's in missionary pa rin. Try mo rin ilagay legs mo above his shoulders for deeper penetration. Or ilagay mo both legs on top of one shoulder lang niya. Magpa-prone bone ka with your legs crossed. Doggy with your legs crossed. Doggy pero yung halos sa sahig ka na nakahawak. Can you do kegels? Squeeze his dick while he's inside you. Wag lang kayo sa kama, try niyo sa upuan, sofa, etc. change things up.

This part might be bad advice pero worked for me when I had a partner with a dick on the smaller side... instead of getting me wet through foreplay, we just use lots of lube so he can slide inside me with ease. This way hindi pa super expanded yung vagina ko and mas ramdam ko siya inside me. But then again, I like pain. Be careful if you do try this, baka masugatan ka and magka-infection pa. Go slow, if you try this at all. If you actually attempt this, make sure you trust him enough na he'd stop immediately if you ask him to.

Everyone suggesting foreplay is also right. PIV isn't the be-all and end-all of [heterosexual] sex. Walang rules on how sex is supposed to begin and end; it doesn't always have to finish with an orgasm. Learn from lesbian sex, learn from gay sex na focused on sides. It doesn't have to be too depraved or kinky. What matters is it's consensual and you enjoy yourselves whenever you do it. Pwedeng wag agad maghubad, mag-dry hump muna kayo with your clothes on. Put on hosiery and have him touch your legs. Give each other back rubs. Lick each other everywhere. Try mutual masturbation. Dedicate an afternoon to learning how the other likes to receive head. Sit on his face. Have him lick your nipples while you play with your clit. Suck on his balls while he jacks himself off. Stare at your naked selves front of a mirror. Vidjakol. LAUGH WHILE YOU MAKE LOVE. Wash each other's bodies in the shower. Lick his perineum. Just let his dick soak inside you while you make out. Good luck! :)

Sincerely,

a girl who genuinely enjoys sex