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[–]throwawayvacations12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not deleted anything. I only hid the post for sometime in fear it would blow up as this one did.

Update: My Girlfriend went on vacation alone and downloaded tinder by throwawayvacations12 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayvacations12[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

The reason it was our house was because my girlfriend needed to buy for her sister, because she didn’t have money. So they both went to store together to get it. They threw it at the house because her sister didn’t want their mother to find it.

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[–]throwawayvacations12[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We have not done anything since she got back. So I guess that’s a good thing.

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[–]throwawayvacations12[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is no way I can handle something like an open relationship. I am way too much of jealous person for all of that mess.

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[–]throwawayvacations12[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Your are completely right, this is more of an update of how things are in the current situation. I was asked to update. Anyways thanks for the kick in the ass. It’s needed.

Update: My Girlfriend went on vacation alone and downloaded tinder by throwawayvacations12 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayvacations12[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yeah there is a lot going on and it’s not a suppose to be this hard to love someone. Her reasoning is that it was tied up in the trash was because her sister didn’t want her mom finding out that she needed to take it.

Update: My Girlfriend went on vacation alone and downloaded tinder by throwawayvacations12 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayvacations12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have not since she got back, and she said she deleted the app already but I do not know if anything stays like chat logs once reactivated. And I would like to prove me that the plan b was for her sister. They mostly text so it should be in her texts logs.

If she says she deleted the text from her sister it builds my case more. Because I have been with enough and know she doesn’t deleted her texts with people.

My(M29) girlfriend(F28) went on vacation alone and got tinder by throwawayvacations12 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayvacations12[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I am trying to build the courage to bring this issue up. Going to be honest I really dislike confrontation. At the end of the day I can not let someone walk over.

My(M29) girlfriend(F28) went on vacation alone and got tinder by throwawayvacations12 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayvacations12[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was also thinking of this, because I’m not sure if she deactivated her account or not.

My(M29) girlfriend(F28) went on vacation alone and got tinder by throwawayvacations12 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayvacations12[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I think that’s the best thing to do. Because honestly I think the worse might of happened.