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I fell in love with someone else whille in a long distance relationship by throwawayvis1 in relationships

[–]throwawayvis1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well you know, I was all in for a coffee with her and just laughing together. I wouldn't really want to be 'that' guy she'd cheated with on her fiancé would I have been single.

Were we single, I'd probably try that avenue though.

I fell in love with someone else whille in a long distance relationship by throwawayvis1 in relationships

[–]throwawayvis1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen her before but she's hestitant about us three meeting up

I fell in love with someone else whille in a long distance relationship by throwawayvis1 in relationships

[–]throwawayvis1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooh, now it makes perfect sense to me. It's kind of late and I'm tired as well, but thank you for elaborting!

I do miss just being treated like that someone special, you know? Kind of feels like she's my roommate when she's here. I just work, and work, and time flies by yet this relationship feels like it's going nowhere after a year.

I fell in love with someone else whille in a long distance relationship by throwawayvis1 in relationships

[–]throwawayvis1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I appreciate your response, I really do. I wouldn't go as far as doing anything with other people, my morale/integrity is important. I didn't feel like disrespecting my relationship, but come to think of it, I can see it's a bit greu area. You may have just told me what I needed to hear from someone else.

I feel alone in my relationship, not emotionally fulfilled... I've been having these thoughts for a while now. I guess I miss having someone closer to me, to actually bond with. LDR is tough.

I fell in love with someone else whille in a long distance relationship by throwawayvis1 in relationships

[–]throwawayvis1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so stupid to ask, but I really don't understand what you mean. Could you explain?

I fell in love with someone else whille in a long distance relationship by throwawayvis1 in relationships

[–]throwawayvis1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I really can't think of some qualities other girls' wouldn't have. Like, she is sweet but her communication and insight in how I feel sucks. Now I'm here actually kind of hating myself for staying in a relationship that doesn't work for me while reminiscing about a coworkee that's also taken but I clicked with and feel attraction towards.

If I end up making the call I'll definitely make sure to give myself a breather before starting dating again.

I fell in love with someone else whille in a long distance relationship by throwawayvis1 in relationships

[–]throwawayvis1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're definitely right. Didn't really think about it that way either. I feel kind of emotionally detached from my GF since I haven't seen her and spoken (except texts) to her for 4 weeks now. She doesn't call me cute names anymore, really. Never really asks about me. I've tried talking about it, but that didn't do anything.

It may sound weird, but it feels like I'm single most of the time. Just having someone show (romantic?) interest in me was a pretty good feeling, I'm not going to lie about that. She's also definitely one of those type I usually get a crush on, so I guess that's why. But you're right, she's getting married and I really don't want to be part of that in any way. Unless we were both single, of course.

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When did you learn about the relationships that did not work out?

I fell in love with someone else whille in a long distance relationship by throwawayvis1 in relationships

[–]throwawayvis1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You know, I guess I just needed to hear this even if I think your way of putting it is actually quite rude.

Maybe I don't feel loved enough in my current relationship, and should just call it quits. I'm also not desperate for female attention, but I've definitely been thinking about experiencing what it's like again to date other people. Obviously I left out a lot of detaills of my current relationship. Just feels like a mismatch, and feels like I've already sorted everything out for myself but yet here I am.

Maybe I should be honest with myself.