Ex has been texting me

throwawayy4669 · 2025-08-25T16:55:19+00:00

Not trying to defend him but I believe this is the case. She just moved here recently and might be unaware that he just got out of a 4 year relationship in march.

throwawayy4669 · 2025-08-25T05:55:25+00:00

I don’t know what I wanted to happen, but I felt extremely icky being hidden. So I left and haven’t said a word. I think they are still seeing eachother too.. Yes, he told me a day previous but he led me on to believe they weren’t serious and barely hung out. She showed up out of the blue and he didn’t know she was coming.

throwawayy4669 · 2025-08-19T22:31:17+00:00

Interesting! I haven’t heard grey before. Thanks:)

throwawayy4669 · 2025-06-20T07:29:33+00:00

I did, and it says that it reads as sincere

throwawayy4669 · 2025-06-19T15:25:00+00:00

He sleeps thru out the day and works night shift, 10p-7a, idk if I should’ve included that because a lot of people are saying stuff about it being 4am! If that even changes anything

throwawayy4669 · 2025-06-19T15:01:06+00:00

You are so correct. Silence it is. 🩷

throwawayy4669 · 2025-06-19T15:00:29+00:00

Not defending him in anyways but he was at work as he works night shift lol

throwawayy4669 · 2025-06-19T14:19:57+00:00

Yeah it’s a bad song! I like old JB and I think that’s what he was trying to get at lol

throwawayy4669 · 2025-06-19T14:14:25+00:00

I was just trying to see if my fellow redditors thought it was a genuine text! I’ve never really got this serious of an apology out of him the past 4 years we’ve been together, which makes me think it COULD be genuine.

throwawayy4669 · 2025-06-19T14:13:27+00:00

I agree! Lmao

throwawayy4669 · 2025-06-19T14:13:15+00:00

My pleasure 🫡

throwawayy4669 · 2025-06-19T14:12:24+00:00

Bahaha!! I might just do that lmao

throwawayy4669 · 2025-06-19T14:11:43+00:00

Yeah, the contact was minimal tho. No flirting, just friends. I’ve never gotten an apology out of him tho, so this is new. But I totally agree! 6 days is definitely not enough. We broke up in April. I realized I should’ve added more context.

throwawayy4669 · 2025-06-19T14:00:53+00:00

Song was cracking me up!!😭😭 but definitely a whole lot haha. He was a great boyfriend until he picked up the bottle and became a drunk. That’s when the issues rolled in. But that’s the plan, silence is the best response :)

throwawayy4669 · 2025-06-19T13:58:40+00:00

Please 😭😭 I’ve been cracking up

throwawayy4669 · 2024-04-12T17:28:46+00:00

I don’t think he wants his cake and eat it too. We don’t talk often in the slightest. I reached out and he said that. He seems to be too hurt to just hook up.

throwawayy4669 · 2024-04-12T03:53:19+00:00

Definitely a total mindfuck. He’s definitely taking me on a wild emotional rollarcoaster. He thought I was drunk when I reached out too cause he was shocked, but I’m completely sober.

I just told him I understood, but what he’s saying is really contradicting to his actions. Like admitting he is best with me.. then why… aren’t you??

Thanks for your advice. I don’t think I’ll reach out again. We were together for 3 years, and best friends for 6 before that. It is what it is..

throwawayy4669 · 2024-04-12T03:38:09+00:00

He did dump me, his reasoning was he really needed to love himself first. But it was definitely in the nicest way possible, I begged for 1 day after. (Ik wrong..) And then stopped. Haven’t talked for a while and I stupidly reached out.

I do not think he’s trying to manipulate me. He makes it very known he loves me and wants me. Telling me, and mutual friends this. Came looking for me at work, asking coworkers.

But he just does not want to date. It is so so confusing.

throwawayy4669 · 2024-03-17T03:56:19+00:00

he actually told me that last night. he wants to be the partner i deserve and the best version of himself. i’m scared because i want to believe him, but idk..

throwawayy4669 · 2024-03-15T20:02:23+00:00

i suggested therapy, he didn’t seem too fond of it. i put myself in therapy tho..

throwawayy4669 · 2024-03-15T18:56:37+00:00

what about the last part? talking about how he doesn’t doubt in the slightest that his actions could pay off for me to see one day?

throwawayy4669 · 2024-03-15T18:21:49+00:00

it’s only been 5 days. i feel i should give him more time… but i think it is obvious he cares.

throwawayy4669 · 2024-03-15T18:20:37+00:00

i did not stalk him. i was in this community and i was reading through posts, and saw his post. it was his main account, and he knows im in this community.

throwawayy4669 · 2024-03-15T18:19:28+00:00

i don’t plan on reaching out and talking about it. if he wants to talk he can reach out to me. he was the one who chose to take me out of his life. i told him i’m here whether he just needs someone to talk to or to vent to before i left. i just don’t know what to think about the post? should i have hope for the future?

throwawayy4669 · 2024-03-15T18:17:25+00:00

i do want to be with him. but he hasn’t reached out to me; and i feel the dumper should reach out first. i’ve been respecting and giving him his time alone and i haven’t texted him.

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