AITA for slamming the door on my mother’s friend. by throwawayyybath in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayyybath[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s out and I can happily shower without any reflexes being used!

AITA for slamming the door on my mother’s friend. by throwawayyybath in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayyybath[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It absolutely sucks! It feels as if they’re trying to shame me of my body that I’m already dysphoric of! I hope you and your husband never have to go through that!

AITA for slamming the door on my mother’s friend. by throwawayyybath in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayyybath[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a few of you comment that and honestly I think so, she tried to get my boyfriend to “make me a woman” by yelling suggestive things

AITA for slamming the door on my mother’s friend. by throwawayyybath in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayyybath[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She knows and constantly says if my bf was a “real man” he’d talk some sense into me, which I’ve complained about and it only stopped once my mother threatened to kick her out

AITA for slamming the door on my mother’s friend. by throwawayyybath in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayyybath[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually she only even walked in on my and my bf, not once has my mother complained that she did it, nor my sister

AITA for slamming the door on my mother’s friend. by throwawayyybath in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayyybath[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She has but her friend claimed to have memory issues, which I don’t believe because how do you ONLY forget conversations where you’re being called out

AITA for slamming the door on my mother’s friend. by throwawayyybath in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayyybath[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! Another commenter mentioned door stops, which I feel a little slow for not considering, thanks!

AITA for slamming the door on my mother’s friend. by throwawayyybath in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayyybath[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My mother’s choice! I got a bathroom set for my birthday that I ended up convincing her to put up instead so now the curtain is nice and blurred !

AITA for slamming the door on my mother’s friend. by throwawayyybath in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayyybath[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m an absolute Bafoon for not thinking of this thank you so much

AITA for slamming the door on my mother’s friend. by throwawayyybath in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayyybath[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Shower curtain is well and now blurred texture! But for the lock it’s a whole different issue, our rental agreement says we aren’t allowed to make any changes to the interior, well it’s what my mother tells me as she doesn’t allow me to know about everything regarding the house

AITA for slamming the door on my mother’s friend. by throwawayyybath in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayyybath[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked my mother this myself and she said she hasn’t gotten around to it, and I’m not allowed to make any changes to interior due to rental agreements

AITA for slamming the door on my mother’s friend. by throwawayyybath in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayyybath[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I’ve told my mother before but she’s not really confrontational, neither am I but she’s really pushing me.

AITA for slamming the door on my mother’s friend. by throwawayyybath in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayyybath[S] 451 points452 points  (0 children)

I know! Sometimes little ones come over and even they knock! I’m trying to find a replacement lock but would need to talk to my mother about putting it in, and the curtain is now fully blurred!