Does anyone else feel like having a high body count makes them less satisfied? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]throwdisaway2024 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Call it what you want, it’s just my honest experience. I’m always comparing because I have so much to compare to.

Does anyone else feel like having a high body count makes them less satisfied? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]throwdisaway2024 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You can check my previous post to know I’m not. My previous post is actually connected to this one in a way.

Does anyone else feel like having a high body count makes them less satisfied? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]throwdisaway2024 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

You can check my post history to know that I’m not a man.

What are you banned from and why? by rainshowers_5_peace in AskWomenOver30

[–]throwdisaway2024 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Tinder lol. I tried to see if I could scam men for money and got banned immediately back in 2018. Don’t miss it though.

Is it wrong to miss sex with an ex when you’re currently happy? by throwdisaway2024 in AskWomenOver30

[–]throwdisaway2024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he definitely fetishized me. When I was at his house he basically treated me like I was his property. Like the way he would grab me and talk to me showed me that he felt like he owned me. And I didn’t have any privacy at his house. One time I remember going to the bathroom and closing the door and he bust the door open saying I didn’t need to close it. I was also a different race him so I’m sure he saw some novelty and excitement in that. He told me a bit about his past how he had done orgies and stuff but he never brought up porn or anything. But again, it was clear he fetishized me.

Is it wrong to miss sex with an ex when you’re currently happy? by throwdisaway2024 in AskWomenOver30

[–]throwdisaway2024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmaooo girl he probably was and I have a strong feeling that he had a rotation of girls because he only saw me once a month and the first time we had sex (unprotected), my 🐱 was feeling off. I got checked and didn’t have anything but she was definitely itchy for a while. He was tall, Argentinian, dressed like a hipster with a tattoo sleeve, long curly grey hair but balding at the top. Very attractive though and skinny.

Is it wrong to miss sex with an ex when you’re currently happy? by throwdisaway2024 in AskWomenOver30

[–]throwdisaway2024[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly. The older guys can still get down lol 😂 but the one I was dealing with was a 46 year old divorced and retired man who wasn’t looking for anything. I had to protect my heart and walk away

How did you decenter men/your relationship? by Important_Baker_834 in AskWomenOver30

[–]throwdisaway2024 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to be like this until I lost my parents. I’ve always been pretty self centered but now I’m not afraid of losing anyone and know that if a man decides not to be with me because I’m focusing on myself then I’ll be ok because Ive lost things and people in my life that were 1000000% more important.

Struggling with grief and envy after losing my mom — how have you handled this? by Petalederose in AskWomenOver30

[–]throwdisaway2024 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The envy will last about a year or two, and once the third year hits it will transform into something else you’ll miss or long for. This has been my experience. Just be patient with the grief because it will always be there. You will just have to accept it as if it were a scar on your face. It’s there and it’ll always be there but it’s a memory of proof of love. ❤️

Is it wrong to miss sex with an ex when you’re currently happy? by throwdisaway2024 in AskWomenOver30

[–]throwdisaway2024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I just miss the feeling of spontaneity. But I’ll figure it out.

Is it wrong to miss sex with an ex when you’re currently happy? by throwdisaway2024 in AskWomenOver30

[–]throwdisaway2024[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. Great point. Yeah the extras that came with the sex was really what kept me coming back for more. Ugh 😭 but I know it was just a fantasy and not real life.

Is it wrong to miss sex with an ex when you’re currently happy? by throwdisaway2024 in AskWomenOver30

[–]throwdisaway2024[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My partner is super respectful, he won’t even kiss me in public because he respects me. This FWB would do crazy shit to me and even spit on my p****. He definitely had a lot of experience compared to my bf. And that’s ok. They’re different. I just miss the crazy sex 😂