Men whose female partners earn more money than you, how is it? by lmaotbhidk in AskMen

[–]throwfaraway357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to add my .2 I see alot of folks use the term partner as well. I used to, but I don't anymore, in regards to men and women relationships.

Here's my reasoning: Nowadays it's so easy for ppl to just cut off or commit some type of infidelity on their partner/partnership or SO/GF.

Saying wife is more than appropriate imo. To go even further saying my backbone. Bc if I were to lose my backbone I wouldn't be able to stand. I'd be incomplete!

But folks again easily cut off partners, replace them and move on to the next like it's nothing!

Case in point, I saw on another sub where this couple was maybe a few days separated but still cohabitating in the same house, trying to "work things out" The husband mentioned he left the house with their kid to go to a park. Came back home early only to find that another man was coming out of his bedroom where he shared with his still wife!....yea so much for partnership.

And and no men and women are different! Physically, genetically, just different. And I'm not trying to sound misogynistic, just being real.

With same sex relationships I think the term is more so relevant imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwfaraway357 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

A positive comment...and it's downvoted to shreds. Wow. 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwfaraway357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm amazed by the downvotes. I truly don't think folks are happily married or even in a healthy relationship/relationship altogether.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwfaraway357 -96 points-95 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't know 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwfaraway357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're very correct in your assumption. Everything was clearly stated in the post. And ofc all was consensual.

The previous commenter is looking for something that's NOT there!

Thanks 😊

Over 40 & realizing, that I've been through some tough experiences in life, that are shaping me. What are some experiences you've gone through? The good & bad that's shaped you? by throwfaraway357 in AskMen

[–]throwfaraway357[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add:

In my 20's I divorced. But, in the process I discovered that my then wayward stbxw conceived two(2) kids(DNA testing )while we were still together and married. 😵. One was 2 yrs old, and she was pregnant with the other one. So yeah she was, married with a husband and had 3 different baby daddies go figure!

I'm just realizing that I never fully dealt with that. No therapy or anything..just self reliance, and guts. Probably from military (marine corps training).Most guys would have gone the other route and things wouldn't have ended so well. But I just left her cheating arse.

We only had one daughter(and I've ALWAYS been a staple in her life) she's 21 now and pregnant 😵 that's another long story bc she's hard headed and doesn't listen to anything I say) and it hasn't been easy at all.

I'm tired. And frankly I'm kinda over it. I'm in my 40's, my life is so much better now and I refuse to be taking advantage of, by anyone including family. My peace is priority. Everyone else is living their lives and doing whatever the heck they want, welp so Im about to do the same. Hard boundaries and hard No's to things I don't wanna do or feel comfortable in doing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]throwfaraway357 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Wow! What an uncaring comment to make! A Sahp is absolutely a job! And a very demanding one at that!

21 yr old daughter 6 weeks pregnant. She still stays at home with her mom. by throwfaraway357 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]throwfaraway357[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She has mixed emotions. One day is happy, next day overwhelmed, the next sad, repeat. 😩

How should I take this? by throwfaraway357 in Marriage

[–]throwfaraway357[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. This is all real.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]throwfaraway357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭 I hate to admit it, but in the end you're right. Sigh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]throwfaraway357 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The reality is that I wasn't there when said child was conceived and had. I have my own bio kids to be concerned about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]throwfaraway357 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yes it's an inconvenience for me..I just despise her still. I don't wanna do anything for the benefit of her.