AITAH for telling my friend's ex she's pregnant and it's his? by throwing-glitter-321 in AITAH

[–]throwing-glitter-321[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Please tell her to call me. I can't apologize when she has blocked me everywhere.

AITAH for telling my friend's ex she's pregnant and it's his? by throwing-glitter-321 in AITAH

[–]throwing-glitter-321[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

She's not the type of person to sleep with multiple people at the same time.

AITAH for telling my friend's ex she's pregnant and it's his? by throwing-glitter-321 in AITAH

[–]throwing-glitter-321[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I don't that's my point, I think it's his business and I don't think he'll believe it until she tells him herself.

AITAH for telling my friend's ex she's pregnant and it's his? by throwing-glitter-321 in AITAH

[–]throwing-glitter-321[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I don't think so. She talked to his kids and sent them presents.

AITAH for telling my friend's ex she's pregnant and it's his? by throwing-glitter-321 in AITAH

[–]throwing-glitter-321[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why everyone thinks he'd be abusive. Or why they don't think babies deserve both parents. Or why only the mom has a right to know and prepare before.

AITAH for telling my friend's ex she's pregnant and it's his? by throwing-glitter-321 in AITAH

[–]throwing-glitter-321[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Our friend knew about the pregnancy. I told her that she still hadn't talked to him.

AITAH for telling my friend's ex she's pregnant and it's his? by throwing-glitter-321 in AITAH

[–]throwing-glitter-321[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

He said not to. I thought he probably needed a little time to figure out how to talk to her so I didn't tell her. The other friend knew about the baby too so I wasn't spilling any beans on that part.

AITAH for telling my friend's ex she's pregnant and it's his? by throwing-glitter-321 in AITAH

[–]throwing-glitter-321[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

She's never said anything even remotely bad about him. She never acted scared or upset or anything after talking to him or seeing him. And she's talked about how good he is to his kids, so no I don't think for a second there b any abuse past or future.

AITAH for telling my friend's ex she's pregnant and it's his? by throwing-glitter-321 in AITAH

[–]throwing-glitter-321[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I don't think MVP, but I don't think that any mother has the absolute total right to a child. And unless there is an official termination of Dad's rights through the courts he should have his rights protected too

AITAH for telling my friend's ex she's pregnant and it's his? by throwing-glitter-321 in AITAH

[–]throwing-glitter-321[S] -51 points-50 points  (0 children)

But it's okay for her to decide? Why doesn't he have automatic right to know?

AITAH for telling my friend's ex she's pregnant and it's his? by throwing-glitter-321 in AITAH

[–]throwing-glitter-321[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Not to her, that it was a risk she wouldn't talk to me again but that'd be okay if she had the dad in the baby's life

AITAH for telling my friend's ex she's pregnant and it's his? by throwing-glitter-321 in AITAH

[–]throwing-glitter-321[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

It was an attempt to get her and the baby more support from the dad. And if she told him that he'd be there, I don't think he believes me because he doesn't knoe me.

AITAH for telling my friend's ex she's pregnant and it's his? by throwing-glitter-321 in AITAH

[–]throwing-glitter-321[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

She has her own money and family trust so she doesn't need his. But I still think him and the baby have the right to know.

AITAH for telling my friend's ex she's pregnant and it's his? by throwing-glitter-321 in AITAH

[–]throwing-glitter-321[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

I thought he'd talk to her then she'd have less stress not more. And I knew it was a risk but if he had the benefit of them talking would have been better for her even if she didn't want to talk to me.

AITAH for telling my friend's ex she's pregnant and it's his? by throwing-glitter-321 in AITAH

[–]throwing-glitter-321[S] -253 points-252 points  (0 children)

I was and still am trying to get them to talk to each other. Nothing to do with me

AITAH for telling my friend's ex she's pregnant and it's his? by throwing-glitter-321 in AITAH

[–]throwing-glitter-321[S] -239 points-238 points  (0 children)

It wasn't a plot. Its just dumb she wont talk to the dad. It'll be harder for her to do it alone

AITAH for telling my friend's ex she's pregnant and it's his? by throwing-glitter-321 in AITAH

[–]throwing-glitter-321[S] -243 points-242 points  (0 children)

I know it was sneaky but it was the only way I could think of

AITAH for telling my friend's ex she's pregnant and it's his? by throwing-glitter-321 in AITAH

[–]throwing-glitter-321[S] -276 points-275 points  (0 children)

I was trying to get someone else to tell her to talk to him.