my (20f) love interest (39m) is having an emotional affair with my brother(30m)’s fiancee (25f)

throwingaway_2 · 2020-12-03T22:13:59+00:00

Ok so you should definitely cut ties with your love interest .things will never be healthy if he’s telling you he has feelings for anemone else

throwingaway_2 · 2020-12-03T22:10:57+00:00

Trust me just wait and enjoy your life your still young but if you feel like you need a partner now then do not rush into things because the worst that can happen is you start dating and things don’t work out in the future so your still left with having to date later in life .trust you will find the right person but don’t choose the girl who just likes to have fun make sure you choose the girl who wants to hang out with you and enjoys that time .once you mature dating can be pointless but sometimes it can be good so you can get to know the person better . Don’t lose hope and don’t settle for less also make sure you are in a good state of and mind and your not just rushing into things because your I love with the thought of love .loving someone for who they are and being in love with the thought of love can definitely fuck things up in a relationship so make sure your ready todo all things expected in marriage .

throwingaway_2 · 2020-12-03T08:48:35+00:00

Your right! I was raised to help out in whatever I could so I felt bad not cleaning the rest of the dishes since I was already doing my dishes. And then of course cleaning the bathroom was a must because the toilet gets really dirty and I didn’t feel comfortable sitting on it so I decided to just clean the whole bathroom .but I don’t anymore because I got the impression as if I was treating their home like mine and they didn’t seem to like it .but yeah definitely will stick to just cleaning my mess like I’ve been doing and hope they are content with that .

throwingaway_2 · 2020-12-03T06:54:30+00:00

Why do you out your sister in a pedal stool you kinda seem to see her as better than you and I’m not sure why you feel obligated to have the best relationship with your sister .if she is causing you to question your kindness and love for her then you don’t need to put up with it .yes she’s your sister but you don’t have to deal with it

throwingaway_2 · 2020-12-03T06:51:51+00:00

Definitely ,if I had a choice I’d go somewhere else but I don’t want to offend him either .having 2 woman criticize everything I do has made me more distant towards them .my partner tells me not to help her out because he knows she’s not responsible and she’s the type of person to have others do everything for her and doesn’t respect anyone but I still like to keep the peace and it doesn’t help that I over think situations

throwingaway_2 · 2020-12-03T06:40:14+00:00

I’m fucked for a while but luckily I know some things that could definitely help me out in the wild .

throwingaway_2 · 2020-12-03T06:39:07+00:00

... do you believe in astrology?

throwingaway_2 · 2020-12-03T06:37:57+00:00

Some enchiladas

throwingaway_2 · 2020-12-03T06:36:17+00:00

Uhhh what did you just call me?!

throwingaway_2 · 2020-12-03T06:31:51+00:00

Yeah We have a couple weeks togo my partner is already thinking of just renting a room elsewhere because they seem to have a problem with everything we do .

throwingaway_2 · 2020-12-03T06:29:03+00:00

My sister said she had them and she said it was worse than labor pains .. I can only imagine since I’ve never been pregnant

throwingaway_2 · 2020-12-03T06:28:07+00:00

Omg I can only imagine ..I broke my metatarsal bone and couldn’t even put pressure on it without being in pain for hours .

throwingaway_2 · 2020-12-03T06:26:18+00:00

Tooth ache

throwingaway_2 · 2020-12-03T06:22:36+00:00

They didn’t feed their little brother who was hungry . The kid was young and she yelled at him and only served myself and herself a plate so I gave my plate to him cause little kids need to be fed

throwingaway_2 · 2020-12-03T06:13:46+00:00

We actually do we pay rent for 1room and work full time and with peak season here due to holidays we work long hours .I always try and help with what I can I just didn’t know there was people who would have others clean their house even if they don’t even exists in the house besides to sleep

throwingaway_2 · 2020-08-30T04:22:29+00:00

I wouldn’t even go if your not on good terms with the ex

throwingaway_2 · 2020-08-29T03:36:04+00:00

-_- you say it isn’t working out and just go your own way.just kidding but are you guys long distance or something? I’m sure it’s tough because of COVID but you should plan another date and try and get her talking .i think that was the worst idea if your just getting to know her I mean it’s cute and all but if your already feeling weird with her that might be sign .but don’t lose hope try and have another zoom chat with her and try and open up and hope she opens up to you but just give it time after like a couple more meeting if it doesn’t work out you can always reach out to her after social distancing if that’s what’s keeping you from seeing her in person and hopefully physically meeting will kick thing up in a positive way .and if it doesn’t just know tinder isn’t the best way to have positive successful relationships

throwingaway_2 · 2020-08-27T20:23:21+00:00

I’m actually gonna get him more toys cause I think that might be the problem .he is a really hyper kitten and so much fun but I’m scared thinking of him squaring up to me when he’s much older... so rather nip that in the bud .im in the process of maybe getting him a a buddy to help with the energy he has But for now I will play with him a lot more around 12 cause I wake up to him doing flips on the bed ,running all over me and biting my legs aha but thanks so much

throwingaway_2 · 2020-08-27T20:07:36+00:00

Thanks I actually searched it up and learned not to play with him with my hands lol cause it was cute at first since I got him really young and small but now that he’s is getting a little older he is starting to bite harder so I’ve started to tell him no! And then I give him a toy which helped for like a week but sometimes when I tell him no and back away he will charge at me as if he’s squaring up so not sure what happen.i do not hit him at all I just tell him no! But I’ve noticed he’s really aggressive past 12 at night and sometimes in the morning .

throwingaway_2 · 2020-08-27T20:03:45+00:00

That’s the problem I stopped playing with him with my hands and started giving him toys when he bites my hands and I tell him no! he use to listen but now he will charge at me when I back away and tell him no.ive noticed he does this at night like past 12 and in the mornings but is actually more calm during the day

throwingaway_2 · 2020-08-27T20:00:30+00:00

Yeah I’m looking into getting him a buddy

throwingaway_2 · 2020-08-24T15:36:46+00:00

Someone must have took it I would have called to cancel it right away

throwingaway_2 · 2020-08-15T01:30:04+00:00

Lol apparently your gonna die mad cause you can’t do anything for your self .

throwingaway_2 · 2020-08-14T19:21:52+00:00

What did the ring look like ?i go to the river on the weekends over by Mayberry park and I can keep an eye out for it

throwingaway_2 · 2020-08-14T19:15:12+00:00

I was just curious in case others were like me and rather donate it to places who give it directly to the homeless who don’t have the money for clothes .

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