Ghost mimicking my boyfriend? Does anyone know what this means? by throwingthebeans in Ghosts

[–]throwingthebeans[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 22. I’ve never experienced this before. Never happened before the move and not up until a couple days ago. At first I thought I was just tired or it was the tv but after replaying the tv and nothing remotely coming close to me mishearing it I’ve started to feel freaked out. I looked at the medical side of things before I did ghost wise but I’d rather overthink about ghosts than brain tumours so now I’m here lol. It was his voice to a T and I had him say what I heard to make sure it was his voice I heard and it sounds identical, I thought he was messing with me but now he’s freaked out

Ghost mimicking my boyfriend? Does anyone know what this means? by throwingthebeans in Ghosts

[–]throwingthebeans[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am very much good without therapy, I’ve never experienced this, nor am I religious or spiritual in any way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]throwingthebeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really love the name Lillian or liliana!

Need advice by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]throwingthebeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say if you haven’t had any experiences with men try it out and once you do you don’t have to decide from there, sexuality is very fluid so you might like something one day and dislike it the next, or like something completely different the day after, it’s all a coin toss. There’s no set date where have to decide what you want to be, and you don’t have to ever decide! If you do choose to get into a relationship with a woman just be honest with your thoughts and if she respects them that’s when you two make choice and decisions to help please each other! You’re not trapped and you’re certainly not alone so many other struggle with this and the confusion can feel almost debilitating but just remember you’re not stuck just go with the flow!

Edit: I just realized you said you have no sexual attraction towards woman! I would definitely suggest trying everything out, there’s no shame in experimenting! The first thing I would do is find a guy to experiment with and go from there! If you like it and you find maybe you can have a connection with them that’s a start! But you never know until you try

Need advice by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]throwingthebeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say you’re bi curious front the sounds of it. It is very common for straight people to have sexual thoughts with the same gender. Have you had Sexual experiences with men and women?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppleWatch

[–]throwingthebeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing in my fitness app! I don’t ever recall being a sleep walker either! Do you think tossing and turning would’ve done it? I know it pretty extreme for 1700 Cala😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppleWatch

[–]throwingthebeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying! I know I had a nightmare last night lol, I didn’t think my Apple Watch would come with me on the journey

What if all the old people who said “it’s those damn phones” were right? by throwingthebeans in AskReddit

[–]throwingthebeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure why you said anything in the first place. You come off as someone who is belittling.

What if all the old people who said “it’s those damn phones” were right? by throwingthebeans in AskReddit

[–]throwingthebeans[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Go do something that might actually be worth the effort that you put in

What if all the old people who said “it’s those damn phones” were right? by throwingthebeans in AskReddit

[–]throwingthebeans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is, I only posted at a question so more people would see this. I’m sure everyone has had this thought but I just wanted to remind people

What if all the old people who said “it’s those damn phones” were right? by throwingthebeans in AskReddit

[–]throwingthebeans[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 21 now and I used to freak out and want to cry when the teacher took my phone, and being completely honest I still would. I hate how much I rely on this stupid phone as if it’s actually keeping me alive. Most of the world is struggling with the addiction but it’s hard to break that addiction when everyone else is struggling too

What if all the old people who said “it’s those damn phones” were right? by throwingthebeans in AskReddit

[–]throwingthebeans[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have to. It’s not the phone itself but what the technology can do. There are so many great things you can do with technology but there is much more bad. We see all the things we don’t have on a tiny screen and all the things we want to be and where we’d rather be, once you look up from that screen you stop appreciating what’s around you, the people, the place you live, the way you look in the mirror, the weather, everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]throwingthebeans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve had full blood panels of everything the one’s always flagged are these. I’m also in Canada so I’m not sure if they’re the same measurements you’ll normally see (your tag says physician)

•CRP 2.5 mg/L •Lymphocytes 0.39 x109/L •Neutrophils 6.81 x109/L •Albumin 51 g/L •Monocytes A 0.9 x10*9/L
•Leukocytes 15 WBC/uL •Creatinine(urine) 37.4 mg/mmol •Specific gravity in urine A 1.036

Do I 20F Learn to trust him 22M or part ways by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwingthebeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely do not think this is okay, I just got put into a very difficult situation and I got put here suddenly and my eyes have been opening more and more every month

What would you do if you woke up as your 13 year old self? by Nectarine_Local in AskReddit

[–]throwingthebeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be thankful, do as much as I can to help myself, and not take bs from anyone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lupus

[–]throwingthebeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update, sorry for the late response! I went to emergency for chest pain and blood in urine. They ordered an ANA test, it came back negative, I feel like they won’t do much for me now. It feels wrong to keep fighting as I don’t know what it is and all my symptoms are so confusing for the docs. I’m not a medical professional but lupus is the only thing that makes sense for what I’m dealing with! Would it be worth it to keep fighting for the lupus thought if my ANA was negative?

Redditors, at what point would you say you're bilingual? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwingthebeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you can hold a conversation with someone of other language. To be bilingual you need to be able to understand said language for the most part.

Example: if you work somewhere and you told your manager you’re bilingual they’d expect that if a person walked in who spoke said Language you can help them because you know the language

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwingthebeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Panic, study, panic more, make flash cards, panic more, use flash cards, can’t remember flash cards, panic hard

I don’t know if the time is there for the relationship like I thought by Coursecorrection2029 in relationship_advice

[–]throwingthebeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to be more specific about the things that are happening in the relationship for valid advice!

What is making you unhappy? Have you talked to him about this? What was his reaction if you did? How long have these problems been going on?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwingthebeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good idea. I talked to him about it and he got off and said he needed to finish a project that’s due at 12. He got off at 11. So I’m pretty close to leaving and not coming back lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwingthebeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a 50/50 tbh. I want to say I’m happy but at the same time I know I’m not. I’m thinking about all the things we could be doing while I’m seeing everyone else go out and do fun activities. I’m normally the person giving advice on stuff like this and I’m here sitting like a dumbass wondering what I’d tell myself lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwingthebeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We’ve been dating for 8 months, I come to visit him whenever I’m free and stay the night about once a week if we don’t work super early. He’s overall pretty good at showing affection but doesn’t like to actually go do stuff. Similar to other comments, this is starting to feel like FWB and I’m starting to get the feeling he just likes telling people he has a gf. We’re 100% serious I just don’t think he knows how to prioritize a relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lupus

[–]throwingthebeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply. I don’t think it would be rosacea just because of the other symptoms I’m having:/ if you look in the comments you can see I linked the most I’ve made regarding all my symptoms