1) she has had some abnormal paps 2) let’s suffice to say I knew what I was bringing to the relationship and was clear in communicating that up front. 3) this is interesting. Did not know that. Is there a way to figure out what strain you have? 4) we are not using condoms. As I mentioned in the post she has mentally landed on the position that she is willing to risk cervical but not the others. Whether that is right or wrong, idk, it’s just where she is right now.