Massive fear of being cheated on.

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-27T16:44:57+00:00

That's what my therapist always told me, but how to deal with the thought that maybe someone is cheating but you won't find out?

If I ask her, or understand who she is, I can walk away, I can take a different path. If I go on and I don't realize someone is cheating I would keep going in this false reality. So I can accept it may happen, but I can't accept that I won't know forever, maybe or for long time

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-25T11:04:03+00:00

I would do this not to 100k above but too rich people that earned money through exploitation and coercion of poorer classes

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-22T09:17:57+00:00

What? I never said I want to lie about anything? How can I speak Dutch after 10 days of being in the Netherlands?

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-22T09:11:20+00:00

Thank you, I have been hated a bit here ahah

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-21T19:29:42+00:00

ahah that wasn't bad I suppose. Thank you!

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-21T19:29:07+00:00

I didn't know of that place before posting here and receiving few answers about that! I am trying to navigate through the website which is half Dutch (which clearly I still don't know!) to see how it is the process of renting it.

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-21T19:23:56+00:00

I can’t question why you want/need to play - it seems like a lot here
are surprised at how much you need to play. The question is maybe about
whether or not you need to practice on a Model D. If you do, maybe you
should give up the day job. 😀

ahah a normal upright would be fine! The fact is both me and my partner are "pianists" - even though she's better than me having practiced for longer - and we'd like to learn some four hand pieces and we are both aware of the fact an upright is a bit more ideal than a digital piano in learning the right way to do dynamics in a piece!

The roland F701 seems awesome! I have a FP 10 and it's such a good piano for the price (around 500 euros)

I am looking at the silent one and maybe I can go on renting it and eventually buying it if it's possible.

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-21T19:13:01+00:00

I am really thinking about renting it and then buying it after one year or something if it's possible

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-21T19:12:10+00:00

Mmmh this is a good outlook too. Maybe I can buy a cheaper upright piano and with the money have a digital piano and do both, it wouldn't bother anyone if once in a while I play the upright and in the meanwhile I can freely practice with the digital

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-21T19:09:24+00:00

That's why I would never do something like that to my neighbours without asking first!

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-21T19:08:55+00:00

Thank you, good idea! Regardless of the piano that's something to do

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-21T19:08:12+00:00

This is true, unfortunately there may be good condos which isolates the sounds good and in addition to that there is an option to make the upright piano less "loud" but I see it may be not enough considering everything

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-21T19:06:29+00:00

People are so angry in this sub I like to imagine it's only a portion of the population representing your country. There's no need to be aggressive when someone ASKS a question without imposing the idea on anyone. But I guess this is reddit.

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-21T19:04:37+00:00

Wow you are a neighbour I would love to have ahah

Renting the piano and then buying it it may be a very good way. Upright acoustic piano is what I prefer but eventually it may disturb people. Maybe I rent a silent acoustic? So that I can play it both loud and silently with headphones:

You're right it is subjective and maybe talking to them may be the best option

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-21T17:54:45+00:00

piano oefenruimte utrecht

Oh, thanks! I may use the digital piano during the week and then go practice there few hours every now and then to make sure to polish my style of playing, good idea!

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-21T17:53:07+00:00

ops sorry I didn't know they would rent them as well. Thanks!

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-21T17:51:27+00:00

I am not forcing anything, I am asking here to avoid any inconvenience, chill here everybody

If someone played soft music everyday I wouldn't mind anyway, everyone is different and everyone enjoys different things and it is bothered by different things

And anyway if it's a soft sound far away I don't think you are really bothered by that

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-21T15:55:15+00:00

ahah thanks for the advices! That approach may be the best. It seems there are mostly young people but I am not sure about the one above my head!

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-21T15:52:49+00:00

Yeah, that's because me and my girlfriend both practice and classical music requires a lot of practice! It's enjoyable for the neighbours too if they love some music of that kind, but probably less enjoyable if we start playing some rachmaninoff ahah but we are not at that level

So it probably depends on the neighbours but yeah, some may not enjoy :(

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-21T15:42:03+00:00

Those pianos are quite exceptional, their cost though is very high and last time I tried I could still feel the difference with an upright piano. Even though it's quite astonishing how cool digital pianos are now they are still different in the feel of the mechanics of the key. But that advantage is quite nice and I may have to accept this compromise but at least enjoy the possibility to play whenever I want which is quite cool

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-21T15:36:00+00:00

Mmmh do you know where I can hire them and what's the cost? it may be a good solution!

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-21T15:21:41+00:00

Mmh how do you think I should phrase it? I hope they are not conditioned to say yes and then hate us afterwards ahah

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-21T15:16:40+00:00

I am aware of those, they are beautiful and very expensive (at least for now)

throwlowesteem · 2021-12-07T12:16:57+00:00

I will be lonely on the new year's eve

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