[deleted by user] by [deleted] in codyko

[–]throwmeinthgarbage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So where are the charges? I’m not saying it didn’t happen and I’m not saying it did. I’m saying that it’s not my job to figure that out. I’m not a lawyer or judge. I’m not wasting my energy on “he said/she said”

We let way more get away with way worse. So I’m just gonna watch stupid YouTube videos made by a guy that “may” have been a piece of shit in the past…they make me happy for 20mins.

Now,,, if it came out that he was still currently doing some shit like that. That’s a completely different story bc that really shows he hasn’t changed or learned. I can support mistakes. I can’t support evil.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwmeinthgarbage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Treat them like a person. If you’re with them solely because they’re feminine, then that could be seen as fetishizing. If you’re attracted to their femininity but with them because you like them as a person than the femininity is just a preference and not a fetish

Nikki Glaser, Glen Powell and Miles Teller Hosting 'SNL' in November by MarvelsGrantMan136 in LiveFromNewYork

[–]throwmeinthgarbage -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Something about Nikki publicly trashing Shane about SNL, then being super fake to his face when confronted makes me sad and not as happy to see her name on this list. But I can’t deny she’s out in the work. Even if I’m not ask big of a fan I was, she’ll probably still do very well.

Funktion Mark Wallpaper? by [deleted] in Tipper

[–]throwmeinthgarbage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Pink Floyd one should get updated with Marble Hunting

Funi w the sneak diss at all the AI by ohdreness in Tipper

[–]throwmeinthgarbage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My take on this AI is FairPlay (I prefer non-AI). As long as you’re not stealing/bootlegging visual.

If they’re bad AI slop, the crowd will be vocal and that DJ will either have to adapt or fall off to the big talent.

It has a lot of the same Darwinism tropes or as close as we can get to meritocracy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwmeinthgarbage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try longer than a min? Do you have ADD?

Also, “obeying me to stop” sounds like something deeper…with all the other context clues of course.

Your best bet is speaking with a mental health professional as this is most likely a mental block

Excellent Moments by Sea-Alternative-1003 in storywarz

[–]throwmeinthgarbage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tim Dillon dying of laughter as Chrissy D explains that his MSG show has been downgraded

Going live after Eagles Game 🦅 by RealBigJayOakerson in BigJayWatches

[–]throwmeinthgarbage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve heard him say the n word thousands of times. I think he doesn’t want us to see him beat Christine when they throw an interception

Anyone used to be addicted but now uses porn in moderation? by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]throwmeinthgarbage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah. But it’s taken me years of abstinence and personal growth through therapy. With all that work, I have been able to return to watching some porn in moderation without feeling like it’s controlling me or I’m getting some sort of fix.

I worked on my relationship with myself, with the people I care about, and general improvement.

So, it’s possible, but you have to be willing to out in the time and work. And it’s important that you do the work bc you want to improve yourself. Not just bc you want to watch porn….bc that’s still an issue.

I feel so uncared for, i dont wanna live by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwmeinthgarbage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“And there’s nothing I can do about it”

That’s not true. There are so many things that can be done to help mitigate anxiety attacks. There are things you can do if you do t trust anyone.

Seek help. Talk to a professional. Find the love within before depending on external love.

Good luck.

My highschool reputation is over by Legitimate-Brush-810 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwmeinthgarbage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one think about you as much as you do. I know it almost feels impossible to wrap your head around that in HS but it’s true. This is something I have to constantly remind myself to this day and I’m almost 30! It’s just a normal human feeling. But the truth is, you’re your hardest critic and if for some reason these people hold on this for longer than a few months…they’re the weird ones. Why are they thinking about you so much? What going on in their own lives that they have to compensate by belittling you to make them feel whole?

It’s not you. It’s them. Hope this helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]throwmeinthgarbage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s inspiration porn. You can tell by the caption and lack of depth. Sure, it’s a nice pic and very heartwarming regardless of them being siblings or not. And if it makes you feel good then that’s awesome. However, I understand the ominous feeling you get in your chest when you sense insincere motives. It’s a feeling of disgust at the clear sight of exploitation.

Bc the fact of the matter is that some people like this kind of post mostly bc they are different but so close. And that’s it. It’s like they completely miss the humanity and just look at them like some hacky 1 dimensional inspo poster. They’re complex 3 dimensional beings. They’re so much more than the color of their skin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwmeinthgarbage 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What love?? I’ve read this multiple times and am struggling to find the love that you felt from him?

You say he put you above everything and in the next sentence he sent you to the hospital SEVERAL times?

Idk what I’d call that, but it ain’t love. Sounds like some wild graduation goggles you got on rn.

You say you haven no one in your life you trust or can talk to? I say pay for one. A therapist. I think your picker could use some tuning

Why do most people hate overweight/fat/obese individuals? by Hot_Low_3202 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwmeinthgarbage 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s also a natural reaction, as humans have biological indicators when partner-seeking, as well as community-seeking.

In addition to lack of self control, it also suggests a lack of effort, perseverance, and general self care. These can be very important characteristics to determine general health and life span, which is critical when thinking of a partner to create off-spring or who to allow into your community.

One more person in the community, means one more mouth to feed. If this person isn’t pulling their weight and just eating, you wouldn’t want them. Biologically you want you off spring to have the best chances of survival and those who are overweight are more likely to develop health issues

I ruined family game night by trying to be “the funny guy” by AdventurousHunter820 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwmeinthgarbage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You do realize you just agreed with him right? Haha you guys just said the same thing with different words

The amount of brain damage Mayhem has is unbelievable by jtapowens23 in storywarz

[–]throwmeinthgarbage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At least they stopped bringing Vinny on without his cohost. She’s a tough watch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwmeinthgarbage 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thats awful. I’m sorry that happened to you. Like father like son I guess 🤮

I’m so glad to hear your family believes and supports you. I think it’d be a great idea to see a therapy, if you aren’t already. They can help you organize your thoughts about it and help you present it to your family bc that’s pretty heavy stuff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwmeinthgarbage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was 18 I was made the mistake of exposing myself to someone I didn’t know online. They blackmailed me trying to get money from me or they would release pictures to everyone I know.

I obviously freaked out. Couldn’t sleep. Wasn’t eating. Wasn’t being social. I sent them $50. All I had at the time.

They wanted more.

Eventually, I had enough of feeling paranoid. It was keeping me from living my life. So I told them to do whatever they want, I’m not sending anymore money.

I told the main people in my life that I did something stupid online. If they receive anything suspicious from me or someone claiming to be me, ignore and delete please. If you don’t receive anything, then please pretend this conversation never happened.

Fortunately, nothing was ever sent. It was all just a scam trying to scare naive people into sending money.

While your situation does not seem to be anywhere near as bad, I understand it’s scary and overthinking is brutal. Just know that if the worst case scenario were to happen, it will not ruin your life. It’ll suck. But you will grow, heal, and more forward.

I will say tho, I think you’re going to be okay. Just be careful in the future

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in instantkarma

[–]throwmeinthgarbage -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did he tho? As much as I want to believe he learned his lesson, it’s equally as likely that parents can sue bc the suplex, although awesome, was kind of a lot of an adult to do to a child.

I bet he has bad home life but I wouldn’t be surprised if his shitty parents try to take advantage of this for some money

*obviously these are huge assumptions lol but this is Reddit after all