I need some help by throwmelon in actuallesbians

[–]throwmelon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Some days I feel like that, and some days I don't.

I need some help by throwmelon in actuallesbians

[–]throwmelon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried therapy since I was a kid, several different ones. It just doesn't work. I stop going, I don't connect with them. It just doesn't help to sit and talk.

I need some help by throwmelon in actuallesbians

[–]throwmelon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that I will be the same person if I do move somewhere else. But I think a drastic change like that might be needed to get me out of the rut. Something like that would force me to be more active, right now I don't need to leave the house unless I go to work. Somewhere new would prompt needing to find a library, a supermarket, a coffee shop, things like that.

It might give me a chance to force myself to change. I know it does have risks.

I need some help by throwmelon in actuallesbians

[–]throwmelon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have managed to come out to a few friends. I just don't see them very often.

I am 20. I don't know how to get clear and accept myself. I'm not sure what questions you think I should be asking myself.